I haven't, I don't even know if I've ever really gotten back with an X before.

I haven't, but I've had the want of, I just want them to want me.

I just want that little validation.

But why?

It's almost like you want it to turn it down.

A little bit.

Yeah, but, just be like, I'm better.

But how is it going to help you. I think it's just it's a weird getting over it thing, but just keeping that communication door open, I think keeps you connected to them in a way that you shouldn't be connected.

Especially if you're already feeling when you're dating again that you're not fully emotionally

available, like, and then you have the X around two. It's just like, well, that seems so clear

to me. It's like, cut that off. That will help you, both of you, move on and be more

emotionally available for someone else. Yeah, but okay, what if you're dating a guy? He's moved on

from his ex. But they were together for a long while. They're both seeing other people. You've been

with your guy for two years. Once every six months or once a year, he grabs a coffee with his ex, like as friends.

Would that bother you?

Should they're fully committed in another relationship?

Yeah.

Coffee, daytime?

I would be okay with that.

But they're with me.

I have two years.

I have for sure, like, security and commitment from whatever their actions are.

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