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Tea with Queen and J.

#131 Don't Spit In My Coconut Oil

Tea with Queen and J.

Tea with Queen and J.

Society & Culture

4.8765 Ratings

🗓️ 5 December 2017

⏱️ 111 minutes

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Summary

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Is your roommate filthy or is she just trying to kill you? We discuss race & cleanliness, our use of pronouns, why “alternative” Blackness is not a thing, and how NOT to respond to rape allegations. This week’s hot list: Baroque Black girls, is it cool to "play" with pronouns, are yt roommates terrible, J. is tired of being treated like "the help" at work, have you ever had your Black card revoked?, Oh hairnah.com is lit, bail Black folks out of jail with an app, period cups #theseisbloodyshoes and mad other ish. Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter & Instagram: @TeawithQJ Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL [email protected] DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj PAY BLACK WOMEN Nene Organics is a vegan and organic hair, skin, and beauty product line, curated by Nerissa Irving. Shop her site here: http://nenefemhealth.com/ NOTES & EXTRA TEA Our new review podcast series “We’ve Gotta Have It?” starts December 6th! We’ll be reviewing each episode of the new Netflix show “She’s Gotta Have It”. Be sure to listen every Wednesday! Help bail Black folks out of jail with your spare change using the new life saving app, Appolition: https://appolition.us/ Check out Creative Soul Photography’s Afro Art featured here: https://mymodernmet.com/afro-art-creativesoul-photography/ and on their website here: http://creativesoulphoto.com/afroart-series/ Play Momo Pixel’s new hair game! http://hairnah.com/ Listen to The Lemonade Show podcast: https://soundcloud.com/lemonade-show This week’s closing clip feature’s Cardi B. on Libya: https://twitter.com/islamrizza/status/935612301704646656?refsrc=email&s=11 Engineering by Indie Creative Network: www.icn.dj/ Libations to our friend Casey who helps keep this show running by giving his money to Black women. Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, check out his latest album Flight Risk available everywhere online now. You can find Ohene on instagram and twitter @ohenecornelius and online at www.ohenecornelius.com Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.TFlintVoices.com

Transcript

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0:00.0

This week on Tea with Queen and Jay.

0:02.1

Is your roommate filthy or is she trying to kill you?

0:04.8

We discussed race and cleanliness, our use of pronouns, why, quote, alternative blackness is not a thing,

0:12.2

and how to not respond to rape allegations.

0:14.6

As Tea with Queen and Jay people, drink up.

0:16.8

Tee with Queen of Jay. up.

0:33.4

Yo, we're doing a series of reviews for she's got to have it on our review show titled we've got to have it question mark

0:41.7

or we could have just said we've got to have it okay you want to do that no okay we all right we

0:47.3

don't got to go this is our show and we do what the fuck we want anyway so that shit drops every

0:51.0

Wednesday starting December 6 I think we'll probably do like what five, five episodes of that shit? Yeah, five. We'll be doing two episodes. Yep. Two episodes of She's Gotta Have It. Uh-huh. Every week. Yes. Every Wednesday. There'll be about 20 minutes long. Check that shit out. Listen to it. We would be analyzing The Fuck out of She's Got to Have It. So check us out. Do it with us be analyzing the fuck out of she's got to have it so check us out

1:12.3

do it with us watch the show listen we are back we're back after like a week off it's been a

1:19.9

minute we haven't been recording in a while yeah the listener haven't heard us in a week that true that

1:24.9

true that true that um feels good to be back. It does. It does. It does feel

1:28.1

good. Um, how are you? I'm good. I'm good. I'm good. Hello, motherfuckers. Welcome to T with

1:35.9

Queen and Jay. We are two women is race nerds talking shit over tea. I'm Queen. I'm Jay. And this is

1:42.0

Tea with Queen and Jay. I haven't been owing. I'm Jay and this is T with Queen and Jay.

1:47.1

I haven't been owling.

2:02.3

I've been like saving it. I haven't had anyone to owl with it. Yeah, I think that could be it too. You're right. You're right. You're right. You're right. True. Nice to do that again. It was good. Feels good. Feels good. Feels good. Feels good. If you would like to follow the conversation had on this podcast, while you listen,

2:07.0

after you listen, whenever you feel like it, use that hashtag, hashtag T with QJ.

2:11.3

Use that on Facebook, Tinder, Twitter, Instagram.

2:14.2

We use that to, like, see what you guys are saying.

2:15.2

We love it.

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