#130: The Enneagram, Emotions, and Marriage–Jeff + Beth McCord Part II
Famous at Home
Josh + Christi Straub
4.8 • 667 Ratings
🗓️ 23 October 2019
⏱️ 37 minutes
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Summary
Remember, Core Decision #4 of becoming famous at home is talking about emotions. In this episode, we get to the heart of how to do that using the Enneagram.
Here are the highlights:
* How your core longings influence how you react to your spouse* Three secrets to using the Enneagram to connect at a deeper, more emotional level* How your Enneagram types speak into the relational dance in your marriage* The specific ways you can talk about emotions and increase emotional intelligence in your marriage* What it means to become A.W.A.R.E. of emotional reactions in your marriage
Show Notes:
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| 0:00.0 | And when it gets to a certain point, she removes herself from the situation. |
| 0:05.0 | And in this one, she moved from the kitchen to the bedroom. |
| 0:08.4 | Well, I'm the anxious pursuer. |
| 0:10.8 | So I go running after my wife, and we're going to deal with this now in the privacy of our bedroom. |
| 0:17.6 | But she's running and I'm chasing. |
| 0:20.0 | Yeah. |
| 0:20.6 | And the more intensity I brought, the more she would disengage. |
| 0:25.4 | You're listening to the Famous at Home podcast with Dr. Josh and Christy Stroud, the podcast |
| 0:31.6 | formerly known as In This Together. |
| 0:34.2 | Kind of like Prince, but not. |
| 0:41.5 | We're now In This Together helping you be famous at home so you can thrive on your stage. Every one of us has a stage and no matter the stage we show up on, |
| 0:48.3 | we all feel the stress of work, travel, and just plain busyness. Unfortunately, it's our loved ones under our own roof |
| 0:57.1 | who often get our leftovers. But what if we didn't have to choose between work and our family? |
| 1:04.5 | Research shows the more connected we are to our spouse and kids, the more influence... |
| 1:09.3 | And fun... We have on our respective stage. So when your |
| 1:13.4 | tires hit that driveway, keep in mind, the greatest red carpet you'll ever walk is through your front |
| 1:20.0 | door. You are famous at home. Welcome back to the Famous at Home podcast. Last week, we had a great conversation with Jeff and |
| 1:32.5 | Beth McCord from your Enneagram coach as we are going through the seven core decisions to becoming |
| 1:37.6 | famous at home. And we are talking about marriage and the marital relationship. And the Enneagram has done |
| 1:43.4 | so much for Josh and I to |
| 1:45.0 | understand who we are and who one another is, our underlying motivations, why we do think and act |
| 1:52.0 | with the way we do. And so we wanted to bring them back because we got to do a broad brush |
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