#130: The Enneagram, Emotions, and Marriage–Jeff + Beth McCord Part II

Famous at Home

Josh + Christi Straub

Parenting, Relationships, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Society & Culture, Kids & Family

4.9 • 653 Ratings

🗓️ 23 October 2019

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

Last week, Jeff + Beth McCord walked us through the nine Enneagram types. This week, they join us for part II, and discuss how to use the Enneagram to connect at a deeper emotional level with your spouse.

Remember, Core Decision #4 of becoming famous at home is talking about emotions. In this episode, we get to the heart of how to do that using the Enneagram.

Here are the highlights:

* How your core longings influence how you react to your spouse* Three secrets to using the Enneagram to connect at a deeper, more emotional level* How your Enneagram types speak into the relational dance in your marriage* The specific ways you can talk about emotions and increase emotional intelligence in your marriage* What it means to become A.W.A.R.E. of emotional reactions in your marriage

Show Notes:

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0:00.0	And when it gets to a certain point, she removes herself from the situation.
0:05.0	And in this one, she moved from the kitchen to the bedroom.
0:08.4	Well, I'm the anxious pursuer.
0:10.8	So I go running after my wife, and we're going to deal with this now in the privacy of our bedroom.
0:17.6	But she's running and I'm chasing.
0:20.0	Yeah.
0:20.6	And the more intensity I brought, the more she would disengage.
0:25.4	You're listening to the Famous at Home podcast with Dr. Josh and Christy Stroud, the podcast
0:31.6	formerly known as In This Together.
0:34.2	Kind of like Prince, but not.
0:41.5	We're now In This Together helping you be famous at home so you can thrive on your stage. Every one of us has a stage and no matter the stage we show up on,
0:48.3	we all feel the stress of work, travel, and just plain busyness. Unfortunately, it's our loved ones under our own roof
0:57.1	who often get our leftovers. But what if we didn't have to choose between work and our family?
1:04.5	Research shows the more connected we are to our spouse and kids, the more influence...
1:09.3	And fun... We have on our respective stage. So when your
1:13.4	tires hit that driveway, keep in mind, the greatest red carpet you'll ever walk is through your front
1:20.0	door. You are famous at home. Welcome back to the Famous at Home podcast. Last week, we had a great conversation with Jeff and
1:32.5	Beth McCord from your Enneagram coach as we are going through the seven core decisions to becoming
1:37.6	famous at home. And we are talking about marriage and the marital relationship. And the Enneagram has done
1:43.4	so much for Josh and I to
1:45.0	understand who we are and who one another is, our underlying motivations, why we do think and act
1:52.0	with the way we do. And so we wanted to bring them back because we got to do a broad brush
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