Welcome to the Empowered Wife podcast where it's all about fixing your marriage

without your husband's conscious effort so that you feel desired and taken

care of and special, even if your relationship feels completely hopeless. I'm

Laura Doyle and today I'm revealing two solutions when your husband hoards.

My guest Kim's husband was always negative and moody and she felt

helpless to make her marriage feel hopeful and fun, but she started to

practice that not only made her husband smile more, kiss her more, and take her out on more dates,

it made her happier too.

She's going to tell us what she did, so you can do it too.

The worst relationship advice of the Week Award winner explains the sinister

subconscious reasons you picked your husband and why you're probably doomed. Too bad it's a bunch of hogwash anyway. All that is

coming up but first I'm going to reveal two solutions when your husband hoards. If your

husband keeps stuff in the garage and stuff in the

yard and stuff in the dining room, stuff in the bedroom, and more stuff in the

living room, it can feel suffocating, especially if most of it is junk, the trash that nobody would want is standing between

you and having the tidy home you dream of.

And if you've asked him to get rid of things and he won't or he just puts things somewhere else and then brings some new stuff, it's frustrating.

Especially because it seems a little crazy that someone would want to have so much junk around.

It makes you wonder if you married a mentally stable person.

Here are two ways you can address this challenge so that you can get what you want, stop nagging him about his stuff, and still have a good marriage.

Number one, focus on your desires.

If you are focusing on how he has too much stuff and complaining about that and

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