13 | How You're Going Down On Me Should Be How You're Kissing Me: Brenda's Sex Stories
Sex Stories: How to Do You
Luna Robbie
4.3 • 951 Ratings
🗓️ 6 March 2019
⏱️ 55 minutes
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Summary
Weed-whacker tongues, rough sex, and unexpected watersports—Brenda shares hilariously candid stories about oral sex preferences, sexual compatibility, and the importance of consent in kinky exploration.
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📈 STATS | 32 5’2” Mexican woman from San Diego.
⏰ TIME CODE
00:00 Brenda’s background, growing up in San Diego, and losing her virginity on her boyfriend’s parents’ bed
03:36 Painful first sex, Catholic guilt, and the shame messaging around sexuality
07:05 Being a “relationship girl,” early experiences with partners, and lack of sex education at home
09:06 Not having orgasms or masturbating until her late 20s and learning to communicate her needs
11:41 Why she prefers aggressive sex despite being petite—and asking partners to step up in the bedroom
14:06 Dating a guy with a tiny penis and the awkward realities of sexual compatibility
16:13 How not to go down on someone: weed-whacker tongues and why pressure matters
18:49 Blowjobs, sex positions, and the moment a partner unexpectedly peed in her mouth
20:09 Discovering that water sports are a real kink—and why consent and communication matter
24:06 Fantasy requests, including a blowjob while he eats pizza and watches football
25:24 Why fulfilling fantasies requires emotional investment and mutual care
26:29 Loving to give blowjobs, power dynamics, and the trust involved
27:25 Deep throating, gag reflex surprises, and blowjob technique talk
32:16 Ball play, grooming preferences, and honest communication with partners
34:02 Revisiting anal sex, preparation concerns, and fears about pain and embarrassment
38:00 Safe words, rough sex, choking, and building trust with partners
42:20 Fantasies about threesomes, gangbang scenarios, and consensual power play
45:23 Kidnapping fantasies, wanting to relinquish control, and extreme role-play ideas
47:13 Filming sex, home porn, and trust between partners
50:02 Advice to her younger self: you deserve pleasure too—speak up and demand good sex
51:17 Boundaries, taboo kinks, and where each of them draws the line
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🤩 TOPICS | Anal sex experiences, anal sex preparation and enemas, analsex discomfort and sensitivity, analsex stigma and fears, analsex versus vaginal sex comparison, asking partners for specific stimulation, ball licking techniques, ball play preferences, blowjob techniques and hand stimulation, blowjob trust and vulnerability, blowjob while lying back sex position, Catholic guilt around sex, choking during sex safety and trust, clitoral stimulation for orgasm, communication during sex, consent and kink negotiation, consensual non-consent fantasies, controlling versus surrendering in sex, deep throat technique and gag reflex, deep throating learning process, discovering masturbation in adulthood, discovering sexual pleasure later in life, female orgasm challenges, female sexual communication, fantasies about multiple partners, first sexual experiences in high school, giving oral sex enthusiastically, hair pulling during sex, high school sexual relationships, learning to advocate for sexual needs, learning to communicate pleasure, losing virginity stories, masturbation later in life, Mexican-American upbringing and sexuality, oral sex preferences, orgasm difficulties in women, orgasm from clitoral stimulation, penis size compatibility, penis size insecurity conversations, porn and body image concerns, preparation for butt sex, relationship-based sexuality, rough sex preferences, safe word discussions, sex education gaps in families, sexual compatibility issues, sexual experimentation in adulthood, sexual shame and stigma, sexual storytelling and humor, small penis experiences, speaking up about pleasure, throat play during sex, tongue technique for oral sex, vaginal sensitivity and penetration pain, vulnerability in sexual relationships, water sports kink discussion, women advocating for pleasure, women discovering their sexual voice.
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| 0:00.0 | Hello lovely humans. My name is Wai O'Lee and this is Sex Stories, a |
| 0:09.7 | podcast where we tell stories about our sex lives in effort to increase communication |
| 0:15.5 | about sex around the world and hopefully that helps us all have way better |
| 0:20.4 | sex and my guest today is going to introduce herself. |
| 0:24.0 | Hi everybody, my name is Brenda. |
| 0:28.0 | Tell us a little bit about yourself, your background, you can make it a sexual |
| 0:32.0 | background if you want but just |
| 0:33.1 | give us a little snapshot of who you are yeah of course so I'm 32 and I love being |
| 0:38.7 | 32 I love being in my 30s I think this is like the best age yet really. I'm Mexican, I'm 5 foot 2, I like long walks on the beach, |
| 0:47.0 | I love cats, I love coffee, I'm a huge winnow, |
| 0:51.0 | I don't know. |
| 0:52.0 | I love to exercise all of the above. |
| 0:55.0 | Amazing, amazing. |
| 0:57.0 | And we are sitting here both drinking coffee and there's a cat nearby so that's a good start. |
| 1:02.0 | Can it get any better than this can't |
| 1:03.6 | get better I don't know maybe if there were more cats that's right so can you |
| 1:10.4 | start us off by telling us maybe a snapshot of what your sex life is like now and or its origin story? |
| 1:16.2 | Like how did it all begin? What do you remember about the early days? What's the transition in life? |
| 1:20.8 | Oh my goodness, my sex life. My sex life is low-key non-existent. Yes, yes, it's definitely not |
| 1:30.1 | consistent. Sex for me started when I was 15 and it started with the |
| 1:36.3 | pretty much the first boyfriend I had and to be honest with you it was I, the first boy that tried to have sex with me. |
| 1:45.6 | Oh, really? |
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