Welcome everybody to another love life episode with myself Matthew Hussey and my dear

sweet little big brother Stephen Hussey. Hello chums and chuckles. Welcome to the show Matthew

I've got a lovely email in from a listener. Go on Steve. So this is from Sonja who says

I hope this email finds you well I'm a regular listener of your podcast on Spotify and I've

watched all your YouTube videos brackets since pre-spotify days. That's quite the claim, Steve.

Yeah I mean I mean bless you Sonja I don't know if that was I hope that was all goodness but

that's quite a marathon. All right. I make it sound that hard. No just she's a completionist

and I respect that. She says Matthew your words have helped me tremendously over the years. I would

find myself occasionally bookmarking videos or saving podcasts to listen to them over again.

Many times I would nod my head and say yes that's right. A loud in agreement. It's a great feeling.

I always like how assertive and direct you are when you provide your views and advice yet still

give us that space to decide for ourselves. You make us or at least me examine my past decisions

and relationships, question my expectations, insert different perspectives which makes me think

and I'm a deep thinker so I like that. With Stephen hosting too it brings another male's perspective

and pace create more openness to the topic. I like the realistic examples and stories that

further solidify the points which help involve more listeners and I can hear it in your voice

and tell how much you both truly care about your listeners so thank you Matthew and Stephen.

You brothers bring us much closer to the conversation and she inserted a little happy birthday for

when it was your birthday. Thank you for all you do for starting all of this from 10 years ago.

I can tell you a hardworking man who keeps improving daily. Let's all age like fine wine she says

sincerely Sonja. Well that is just lovely Sonja thank you. That is really really touching.

The moment where you said I often find myself, I think she said many times I find myself nodding

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