Hello lovely humans, I'm Wiley and you are listening to sex stories, a

podcast where we learn about ourselves and each other by sharing our sexual

perspectives and stories in an effort

to create a world where we all get lay in ways that make our hearts sing because

we all deserve to lead lives we love. Our guest today is a 29 year old Jewish

male. He is attracted to both men and women. He's still figuring out how to

label all the stuff that he's into, so we're going to talk about that. A social worker from Israel,

welcome Alex.

Hi, thanks for having me.

So happy to have you here. Can you start off by telling us on a scale of one to ten

with ten being super full of

shame and one being not so shamey where do you fall today I think today at like a

four but I think it changes when does it change I think it changes all the time I think it also changes

whenever you're with a sexual partner depending on what the situation is it can

change depending on your own mood depending how you're feeling about yourself

but I think today I'm at like

the four okay can you tell us what your sex life is like right now just a

little overview it's complicated but right now sex is mostly happening in one night stands and just having some fun.

I think I've been in a period of transition.

So in that transition period, it's been kind of hard of figuring out like how to get into a relationship and also coming out a few years ago

So the whole thing is a little complicated. We can get into that.

Okay, okay. And then can you just tell us what does sexy mean to you? I think

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