127 SelfWork: The Two Masked Marks of Manipulation aka Stonewalling and Gaslighting
The SelfWork Podcast
Margaret Robinson Rutherford PhD
4.8 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 3 May 2019
⏱️ 25 minutes
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Summary
There are many ways of creating problems in relationships, but there are two manipulations that are sometimes harder to see than out and out contempt or defensiveness. They are stonewalling, basically “the silent treatment” and gaslighting, when someone tries to undermine your own perceptions to the point where you distrust your own mind. The first […]
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| 0:00.0 | This is self-work and I'm Dr. Margaret Rutherford. |
| 0:13.0 | At self-work we'll discuss psychological and emotional issues common in today's world |
| 0:19.0 | and what to do about them. |
| 0:20.0 | I'm Dr. Margaret and self-work is a podcast dedicated to you taking just a few minutes today for your own self-work. |
| 0:30.0 | Hello and welcome to the 127th episode of self-work or welcome back if you've |
| 0:35.2 | listened before. I'm Dr. Margaret Rutherford, I'm a clinical psychologist and I've |
| 0:39.8 | based my practice for the last 25-26 years out of Fayetteville, Arkansas. I started to |
| 0:46.0 | podcast two and a half years ago or so because I wanted to extend the walls of my |
| 0:50.6 | practice to those of you who might already be in therapy or might be very |
| 0:55.2 | interested in emotional and psychological topics, or to those of you who more recently have been |
| 1:00.8 | diagnosed with anxiety or depression or have run up against a relationship |
| 1:06.1 | issue that's got you mystified. |
| 1:08.5 | And of course that third group that I like to talk about, those of you who might never consider darkening a therapist door, but are curious |
| 1:16.1 | about what therapy is like, what a therapist might sound like. Of course this isn't therapy, |
| 1:21.2 | but hopefully you'll be getting some ideas for me about what that therapy |
| 1:25.3 | just might feel like. So welcome to all of you. I want to thank those of you that in late April |
| 1:31.6 | have left me written reviews on iTunes, it is so helpful for me |
| 1:36.1 | when you do so. |
| 1:37.5 | And somebody gave me a one-star rating, but they didn't explain why. |
| 1:41.3 | And you know what? |
| 1:42.3 | I would like to hear from those people as well if you don't like it why don't you like it what would you like better |
| 1:47.0 | But I'm delighted to read some of these reviews to you |
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