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Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

#127 - Personal Growth is For Everyone: Black Counselors Speak Out

Love, Happiness and Success with Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Marriage, Mental Health, Success, Emotionalintelligence, Selfhelp, Wellness, Mentalhealth, Selfimprovement, Career, Health, Society & Culture, Careerdevelopment, Mindfulness, Lifeadvice, Dating, Parenting, Breakups, Relationships, Productivity, Positive, Happiness, Goals, Health & Fitness, Communication

4.6849 Ratings

🗓️ 4 June 2018

⏱️ 65 minutes

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Summary

Everyone has the right to growth, and to feel safe, comfortable, welcome, and understood in what should be the most healing environment of all: Therapy, life coaching or marriage counseling.

However, for African Americans, people of color, and other minority groups in the U.S., that has not always been the case. Particularly for black people, getting involved in meaningful growth work can be fraught with obstacles. The time to change that is now.

On this episode of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast I've invited my colleagues Anastacia Sams, Teresa Thomas, and Zachary Gaiter to talk about their perspective as black therapists and black marriage counselors. We're discussing:

  • The historical influences that have created feelings of stigma or unease for black people to get involved in therapy.
  • How the idea of using personal growth for self improvement has not been part of black culture... And why that needs to change.
  • How the legacy of racism has led to a culture of concealment about vulnerable topics among African Americans, and how this impacts both individuals and couples.
  • "Black Love," the "Superwoman Syndrome," and the impact of prejudice on self-esteem, intimacy, personal responsibility, and empowerment.
  • How affirming and healing it can be for black people to connect with a supportive black therapist, black life coach, or black marriage counselor who really understands them, where they come from, and how to help them grow.

We hope you join us today on this episode of the Love, Happiness and Success Podcast.

Zachary Gaiter, M.A., LPCC, Teresa Thomas, M.A., Anastacia Sams, M.A., LMFTC and Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, LMFT

www.growingself.com

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0:00.0

This is Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, and you're listening to the Love, Happiness, and Success

0:08.7

podcast.

0:10.3

It's funny how money change your situation.

0:13.3

Miscommunication lead the complication.

0:15.9

My emancipation don't fit your equation.

0:18.4

I was on the humble you on every station.

0:21.4

Someone play young Lauren

0:22.2

Like she down

0:23.1

But remember not to game

0:24.6

To one under the sun

0:25.6

Everything you did

0:26.8

Has already been done

0:28.1

The Lost Ones

0:29.8

From her

0:32.3

classic album

0:33.8

The Miseducation of

0:35.5

Lauren Hill

0:36.0

Thank you to my colleague Zachary Gator, who we're going to be

0:39.4

talking to today on today's episode. That was his suggestion for our musical intro, and I think it was

0:44.9

perfect. So thank you for that. And we thought it was appropriate today, because, you know, today

0:51.1

on the love, happiness, and success podcast, we're going to be talking about

0:54.8

some things that I think are really special and really important and probably not talked about

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