There's three important questions that you have to ask yourself, and they are the key to you

unlocking the life of your dreams. That's what we're going to be talking about on this week's

episode of the higher self. First off, I want to say that I love these episodes because it's

just you and I, and hopefully a pen and a piece of paper,

something to take some notes on because when I have these moments with you, my whole entire focus

is to help you in some way, shape, or form change your life. And I don't want to assume that your

life needs changing. What I'm going to assume is that

if you're listening to this episode on a weekly basis, you want a part of your life to transform.

You are experiencing life in a certain way that is causing you to want more from it. And that's

what our podcast is all about, and that's what this

episode is going to be all about. I want to take you back to a time in my life where I legitimately

did not feel worthy of love, worthy of abundance, or worthy of financial freedom for that matter.

It was a time in my life where I was just starting the process of my separation and divorce.

I was about 50 pounds or so overweight, or at least over what I weigh right now.

And I was really, really good at finding

ways to make a lot of money and yet spending absolutely all of it. I tried everything. I tried

budgeting. I tried hiring a bookkeeper. I tried looking at the money. I tried doing everything. And what I didn't realize was self-sabotage had hijacked my life. What I didn't realize is that I had found ways in every single area of my life to keep me away from the absolute highest version of myself and the life of my dreams.

And I had also found ways to keep myself out of balance. I had found ways to always maybe do good in one area of life,

but then all of a sudden find ways to do bad in other areas of life.

You know, maybe I was doing good at being a father

and doing good at being in business, but my relationship sucked and my health sucked.

And the more and more that I started working with wonderful people like yourself,

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