Can I say this?

Yeah.

I feel like if you really are controlling and want to be in charge all the time, this is the guy for you.

Yeah.

You need a yes man that's just always like, yep, all right.

You make, you know, you pick where we go, honey.

I'm along for the ride.

Yeah, like as long as they're like yeah i don't i don't want to be in the driver's seat you

know yeah or i know guys i wouldn't call them pushovers by any means but they literally love having a

relationship because they're like i don't have to think about shit anymore yes they're like she

will tell me hey we're going here on you know this weekend or like hey where this to this party like

they're like i don't have to think about anything i just do what my you know wife this weekend or like, hey, where this to this party? Like, they're like, I don't have to think about anything. Yeah. Just do what my, you know, wife or girlfriend says.

They're like, and it's great. Yeah. They're like, it's great. They're like, I hate. And they're often

people that, uh, men that are very anxious. And they love being someone goes, hey, this is what I want you to do. And I go, great. And I just do it. Yeah. Like, it takes all the thinking and worry

out of it. Yeah. Like, I would agree with you. Like, I wouldn't call, I know those people too. And,

like, we're probably thinking of some of the same people. Yeah. Um, I wouldn't like call them necessarily like pushovers. I think they're like really good partners in that like they're also like

they want to do the things that their partner wants them to do. Yes. Like that brings them joy. So I think like

it's important to recognize the differences in those. And that like like you said, like you should be

together if that's like you're complimenting each other.

Right. And I don't, I don't see those guys as low self-esteem at all. Like they're just in their

head. And so sometimes, yeah, it messes with their confidence. But it all comes from they want to

make the other person happy. Yeah.

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