Hi, I'm your unused PTO. It's almost the end of the year and if you don't put me on a time sheet, I will be gone forever.

Use me or lose me. Let's get away!

It's Getaway Time. Get our best deals of the season on a new Hyundai. It's your journey. Own every mile at the Hyundai Getaway sales event.

Now get zero percent APR, zero payments for 90 days and a thousand bonus cash on select vehicles.

Visit your local Hyundai dealer today. Hurry, the Hyundai Getaway sales event ends January 3rd. Call 15623144603 for offer details.

Welcome to Feedback Friday. I'm your host Jordan Harbinger and I'm here with producer Jason DeFilippo.

I hope you had a happy Thanksgiving. If you celebrated American Thanksgiving the other day. If you celebrated Canadian Thanksgiving, I also hope you had a great Thanksgiving whenever that was.

Here on the Jordan Harbinger show, we love having conversations with our fascinating guests. This week, we had Dr. David Bus talking about jealousy, mate retention, and why people do seemingly irrational things in relationships in order to keep their partner or upgrade to another partner.

And we had my friend Kristen Karney here on the topic of depression, which is extremely common here around the holidays especially.

Of course, our primary mission is to pass along our guests insights and our experiences and insights along to you. In other words, the real purpose of the show is to have conversations directly with you.

And that's what we're going to do today here on Feedback Friday. You can reach us Friday at Jordan Harbinger.com. Try to keep them concise if you can. It really does help us get your question answered here on the air.

As always, we've got some fun ones and we've got some do'sies. So I can't wait to dive in Jason. What's the first thing out of the mailbag?

Hey, Jordan Jen and Jason. I'm very close to my sister who's 27 and is two years older than myself who has been married for seven years and has four kids. I've also been friends with her husband who's 28, often on over the years.

Years ago, my parents cautioned me on it being inappropriate for her husband and I to be close buddies, so we've been distant friends for a long time.

We struck up a bit of a friendship again a few weeks ago, just sending funny memes back and forth in a group message. Shortly afterwards, he confided in me over a private text that he was dissatisfied with the lack of sex in their relationship.

So I encouraged my sister in a roundabout way to be sure to not become one of quote unquote those wives who shut off that part of the relationship.

I offered to keep the kids for a weekend and encourage them to spend some time together.

My sister is a growth mindset type of woman, a hard worker, incredibly generous, fairly sheltered, and naturally pretty despite having four kids pulling it from all sides day and night.

She's a little stressed at their tight budget, but she's a positive person with deeply conservative Christian roots.

I checked in with him again this evening because he wasn't responding to my questions about whether I had helped, since she responded very positively when I encouraged her to check in with him about how they're doing.

His response was basically that it didn't move the bar enough, even when I suggested that he outright tell her his frustration and request more sex. I'm a very straightforward person that way.

He proceeded to tell me that it's useless, he's tried it, which I doubt, and that he's constantly fantasizing about other women and has almost cheated several times, going as far as driving to a girl's place.

...