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Relationship Advice

124: Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa...Oh My!

Relationship Advice

Colter Bloxom

Relationships, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.41.7K Ratings

🗓️ 6 December 2017

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

Navigating the complexities of an inter-faith relationship can be difficult, especially during the holiday season. Forty-nine perfect of unmarried relationships and 39% of marriages are inter-faith, and the numbers continues to grow. Today's episode will help you learn how to communicate with your partner during the holiday's and beyond. Don't be the Grinch this holiday season, listen this episode to get the tools to maintain a happy and healthy relationship.  In this episode we discuss relationship advice topics that include: Learn how to communicate about your differences and establish rules to operate under in your relationship. Understand why our needs are not always met in a relationship, and why that's OK. How to deal with parents who might be pushing their religious views on you or your partner. Remembering that you got together because of your differences and this is what should be appealing about your partner. It would be pretty boring if you agreed on everything! And much more! Diane Barth is a psychotherapist and psychoanalyst in New York City where she works with individuals, couples, and families and leads private study groups. She also offers workshops for therapists around the country. Her articles have been published in numerous professional journals and books. Full Show Notes and Episode Links at http://idopodcast.com/124 Sign up for our 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge here: 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge Do you want to hear more on this topic? Are you struggling with your partner spending too much time at work or on their phone? If so, you're not alone. Continue the conversation on our Facebook Group here: Love Tribe Sponsors Talkspace: The online therapy company that believes that therapy should be affordable, confidential and convenient. Join over 500,000 people who have used Talkspace for online therapy with their licensed therapist. Get $30 off your first month when you visit Talkspace.com/IDO. Storyworth: StoryWorth makes it easy and fun for your loved ones to share their stories, with weekly emailed story prompts - questions you’ve never thought to ask. At the end of the year, they’ll get their stories bound in a beautiful hardcover book. Strengthen your family bonds, and get to know your loved one in a whole new way.   For $20 off, visit Storyworth.com/ido If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! - Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Transcript

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0:00.0

The Take me to the place in the middle of the sun.

0:17.0

Take me to the place in the middle of the sun. Hey hey what's going on, Love Tribe?

0:33.6

Welcome to I do podcast.

0:35.4

Thanks for joining us today.

0:37.7

You are the Love Tribe.

0:39.6

We've, unofficially, or is it official? Well, I mean it's kind of official. It's official I don't think we've ever talked about it have we? Yeah, we have okay

0:49.3

Oh, well it's designated I do podcast listeners as the Love Tribe group of individuals trying to find love or improve love

0:58.4

more love more love create more love in their lives and we had a great interview on today's show that will

1:07.4

definitely help you do that. We talked to Diane Barth all about how to navigate a interface or it doesn't even have to be interfaith,

1:20.2

but certainly there will be bigger problems there but a relationship around the holidays

1:26.7

and particularly interfaith couples have a bit more hurdles but maybe not necessarily because we actually talked about how like

1:36.7

if you are interfaith and let's say Jewish and Christian for example there's not going to be a huge debate on which side of the family you're at for Hanukkah or Christmas, right?

1:47.6

It's just like, we'll go here or there.

1:49.2

But there are certainly a lot of problems and it doesn't even have to be the holidays but just

1:55.4

family dynamics can be tough with parents and relatives and then if you have a child who gets the sea the lovely granddaughter

2:06.1

that we have is always something not an issue but definitely in a negative way but definitely something that we have to be aware of and

2:16.7

communicate about. Yeah I think we definitely have to manage our time a little bit

2:20.6

better with the holidays now with Stella just because everybody is quote

2:24.6

unquote fighting for her you know everybody wants to spend the holidays with her and so

2:28.8

it's it's even harder than it was before when it was just us too, because now there's a whole other dynamic

2:35.6

added in it. So it's very important to really talk with your spouse first, set those boundaries

2:42.0

and those expectations with your partner. spouse first,

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