1231: What To Do When Anxiety Won't Go Away
The Anxiety Coaches Podcast
Gina Ryan
4.6 • 1.9K Ratings
🗓️ 25 March 2026
⏱️ 19 minutes
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Summary
In today's episode, Gina discusses the frustrating sense that your anxiety recovery process has frozen, including stories from her own anxiety recovery journey. Persons with anxiety often demand too much from themselves in their recovery process and can become disheartened as symptoms persist longer than hoped. Listen in for a reminder that recovery is not linear and how to stay encouraged your anxiety recovery process is still moving forward, even when it seems to be stuck.
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Chapters
0:26 Welcome to the Anxiety Coaches Podcast
0:42 The Weight of Persistent Anxiety
4:07 Embracing the Healing Process
6:54 Activating Safety in Your Body
11:44 The Subtlety of Change
14:25 Understanding Progress in Healing
17:33 Learning to Coexist with Anxiety
Summary
In this episode, I delve into the complex emotional landscape of anxiety, exploring the often frustrating sensation that healing is stagnant or nonexistent. Throughout my journey as both a coach and a long-time sufferer of anxiety, I have witnessed firsthand the internal struggle that many face—feeling stuck despite countless efforts. I reflect on how common it is for individuals to feel as though they have regressed in their progress, questioning why others seem to find success when one's own attempts yield little change. It’s vital to recognize, however, that such feelings of stagnation are not indicators of failure; rather, they are part of a fluid, evolving healing process.
I introduce listeners to the concept of perceived timelines in healing. In the early stages, we often begin with hope and openness, ready to embrace the tools we acquire through podcasts, books, and meditation. However, as time passes, a subtle pressure can mount—the pressure to measure progress, to feel different, and to see immediate results. I emphasize that this self-imposed judgment can create additional anxiety, reinforcing the very patterns we're seeking to disrupt. The key lies in acknowledging that true healing is non-linear and involves embracing our current state without urgency or a fixation on results.
As I discuss the dynamics of anxiety, I point out the significance of allowing oneself to feel, instead of resisting. The metaphor of a "watched pot" encapsulates the reality of evaluating our progress; the more we scrutinize our feelings, the more elusive they become. By stepping back and releasing the need for our experience to change immediately, we cultivate a sense of safety within our bodies—essential for genuine healing to take place. Through gentle reframing, I encourage a shift from anxiety as a source of fear to an experience that we can coexist with, allowing for softening and acceptance.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the anxiety coaches podcast, a relaxing and informative show where we explore anxiety, panic, and PTSD, sharing how you can overcome them for life. |
| 0:23.1 | Aloha. |
| 0:24.2 | Welcome back to the Anxiety Coaches podcast. |
| 0:27.6 | I'm your host and coach, Gina Ryan, and I am so happy to be with you again today |
| 0:34.1 | as together we can consider the many ways to bring your mind and body back to its |
| 0:40.5 | natural peace and calm. In today's episode, we're talking about something I know many of you |
| 0:47.7 | quietly carry. That feeling that your anxiety just isn't shifting. It seems like it just won't go away, |
| 0:58.3 | even though you're trying, even though you're doing the work. How many times have I felt this in the |
| 1:05.8 | past when I was struggling? And how many times have I heard this from people that I work with? Very many. |
| 1:15.6 | Not only does the shift not feel like it's happening, but sometimes it feels like we have gone |
| 1:22.3 | backwards and we're right back where we first started. Now, as a side note, I want you to know you are never back |
| 1:31.6 | at square one. You are not even the same person you were when you began this journey, even if it was a few |
| 1:39.4 | weeks ago. But that's a different topic for another episode. Just remember, you never go back to |
| 1:47.1 | square one. Maybe you've been listening to this podcast. Maybe you've been listening to a lot of |
| 1:55.0 | podcasts. Maybe you've been reading books, meditating, practicing, noticing, and yet it's still there. |
| 2:06.8 | What is the it that I'm talking about? |
| 2:10.6 | That tightness, that looping thought, that underlying unease, that mind that is going to the negative as its first response. |
| 2:25.2 | And a question starts to form when we feel like that. Why isn't this working? Or better yet, |
| 2:33.1 | why isn't this working for me? You hear that it works for other people. People have had success, lots of success. But why not you? What's wrong with you? That is not the right question. It is working, but you aren't tuning into it. |
| 2:56.0 | If that's where you are right now, you are not alone, and more importantly, nothing has gone wrong. |
| 3:04.8 | There's something very subtle that happens when we begin working with anxiety. |
| 3:11.6 | At first, we're hopeful. |
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