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1228: You Cut and Run but Parents Treat Ex like a Son | Feedback Friday

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Jordan Harbinger

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πŸ—“οΈ 24 October 2025

⏱️ 71 minutes

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Summary

He chose beer and coworkers over you. You chose yourself and left. Now your own parents roll out the red carpet for him. It's Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at [email protected]. Now let's dive in!

Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/1228

On This Week's Feedback Friday:

  • Gabe went on his own 16-hour dooze cruise across the Baltic Sea instead of taking a one-hour flight from Helsinki to Stockholm. Was sailing his way through the salty sea spray worth its trouble? You can opt to hear all about it or skip ahead to around eight minutes and 30 seconds [00:08:30] if you're one of those kinds of listeners!
  • You left your neglectful ex who prioritized drinking with buddies over parenting, moved on to a healthy relationship, and found happiness. But now your parents have sided with your ex β€” hosting him, lending him their car, even hanging out with him. Why would they betray you like this?
  • You've maintained a 25-year friendship with someone who dominates conversations, rarely asks about you, and treats service workers rudely. After she experienced a devastating loss, her behavior toward you worsened. How much bad treatment should you tolerate in the name of grief and loyalty?
  • You've spent 15 years in the trades making low six figures, but it was never your dream β€” just a backup plan. Now your income can't keep up with rising costs, your wife stays home with three kids, and you're eyeing a career change that pays less and might not suit you. Should you leap or stay put?
  • Recommendation of the Week: Swanwick Blue-Light-Blocking Glasses (10% off here)!
  • You're 17, itching to see the world beyond your medium-sized hometown, inspired by travel stories that make you want to backpack and grow through discomfort. But everyone's pushing you to apply to colleges now. Should you travel before college or after? Does the order even matter, or will waiting mean missing the window?
  • Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at [email protected]!
  • Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
  • Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi and Instagram @gabrielmizrahi.

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0:00.0

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1:08.8

Welcome to Feedback Friday. I'm your host, Jordan Harbinger. As always, I'm here with Feedback

1:13.2

Friday producer, Little Gabe on the Prairie, flitting about like a Finnish ferry before he crosses

1:18.0

the Baltic on a ferry, Gabriel Mizrahi. Wow, bravo. That was some of your finest work, dude.

1:23.6

I mean, that one wrote itself. Honestly, that was just a little alley-oop on your increasingly zany life choices. Let's explain in a second. On the Jordan Harbinger Show, we decode the stories, secrets, and skills of the world's most fascinating people and turn their wisdom into practical advice that you can use to impact your own life and those around you. Our mission is to help you become a better informed, more critical thinker, and during the week we have long-formed conversations with a variety of amazing folks, former jihadis, drug

1:48.3

traffickers, astronauts, legendary Hollywood actors. This week we had Jimmy Kimmel, well, James Kimmel,

1:54.1

on the Science of Revenge and Kashmir Hill on AI chatbots driving people, literally driving

1:59.9

people insane. We also released a bonus episode, which was really Feedback Friday from last week. We re-released that because of an error. So if you didn't hear Feedback Friday last week, now it's the bonus episode from Wednesday. Sorry for the confusion, folks. We also did a skeptical Sunday last Sunday on, and I can't believe I'm about to say this, penis size. No need to dwell on that one. On Fridays, though, we share stories, take listener letters, offer advice, play obnoxious soundbites, and keep up with Gabe across various modes of increasingly ridiculous transport. Hello, producer Jay's here. If you'd like to skip Jordan and Gabe's pre-ramble here and move swiftly to the first question. That's totally possible.

2:35.0

I'd suggest you stick around because it's a really fun story. But if you do want to skip to the

2:39.9

first question, you can do so by skipping to 8 minutes and 30 seconds. Give or take if you

2:45.9

order advert at the top of the show. So just to explain today's nickname, you're recording this

2:50.2

episode in Stockholm today. Yeah, I'm in Stockholm. That's right. I took the boat here from Helsinki, which I think is what you're referring to. But I did not know what I was getting into when I booked this boat. I swear, every time I look at your Instagram, I start cracking up because you're always involved in some bizarre new caper. I'm honestly not trying

3:07.9

to be this zany. I'm just trying to get from A to B and weird shit keeps happening. It's like the

3:12.7

equivalent of, I need to get across the room. I'm going to walk on my hands to get there. Like,

3:16.7

no, no, no, I need to. Last week, your hippie Grandpa Gabe rocking out with your wool socks with

3:21.2

reindeer around him sitting in a sauna with a bunch of hippie Dave Matthews band Vikings. This week, you're boarding a cruise ship. None of it makes any sense.

3:28.9

There's no co-heat. There's no through line. Let me explain. So, you can fly from Helsinki to Stockholm,

3:34.1

obviously. It takes like an hour. But someone told me that there's also a boat you can take,

3:38.5

and it takes 16 hours to get there. But you board this

3:41.7

boat, you hang out, you go to sleep, and you wake up in Stockholm. And it's supposed to be really fun. And it's kind of a right of passage for Finnish and Swedish kids, apparently. It's kind of like a booze cruise situation a little bit. A booze cruise or a dews cruise cruise. A booze cruise with a Cruise.

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