When I go into trying to logically reason things through, well, if he would want, if he'd want to, he would, but I want to and I don't.

That's all in our head. See that? It's all cognitive and none of that's going to get us anywhere.

I mean, think about it. If you follow that train of thinking, where exactly do we think that's going to have us end up?

I'll tell you where in a place that doesn't feel super great. It doesn't feel good in our body. So I want us to try

something else. Let's see if we can go about this differently. In actuality, it doesn't matter. It

doesn't matter their motivation. It doesn't matter what's going on in their head. All that matters is

does this work for me? I watch with my eyes. I see their action. Do I want to communicate about it? Or do I just want to simply say, this doesn't work for me and I move on? Here's the kicker. It's not coming up with the answers

to our reasoning. It's not reasoning in the first place. Hey everybody, welcome back to Shooter's Got a Shoot. I am your co-host, Eric Aspera.

And I'm Molly DeMillear. And we are doing a little bit of fun episode this week of some advice we've gotten from TikTok.

An unlikely source.

Hey, there's some legit.

I think there's some legit people on there.

So we have a mix here between, you know, people that are therapists, PhDs, and just people

with theories that went viral.

Yeah.

And we're not going to dance for you.

I don't know.

It's very interesting that I think TikTok sometimes, I've heard many people say this

of like sometimes it feels like a personal attack of like what's in your algorithm.

Oh, yeah.

But you're just like, how do they know?

Yeah.

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