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121. A Crime of Hate: Stalking Darian

Strictly Stalking

Strictly Stalking

Society & Culture, True Crime

4.12.6K Ratings

🗓️ 9 May 2022

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

Darian was stalked by a stranger he met through a random act of violence. When Darian's female friend was sexually assaulted during a night out, they left the scene, but the perpetrator followed and physically assaulted Darian. Days later, a friend of the perpetrator confronted them, saying they should die because they called the police. The man started showing up in places Darian frequented, physically and verbally attacking Darian. He did not know the identity of this man but was finally able to get a clear photo during one of his attacks, and the police were able to identify him. At first, Darian believed these were random crimes due to being in the wrong place at the wrong time, but now sees that this person was using stalking to commit hate crimes against him. 

**The following episode of Strictly Stalking contains topics including sexual assualt and physical violence. Listener discretion is advised.**

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Transcript

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0:00.0

The man got more violent, he was throwing objects at us and then he started punching me

0:07.6

and my guy friend who was with us, you know, he was getting more and more angry and

0:12.5

we were really prepared to stop fighting and I was just like, hey man, we calm down,

0:18.0

like we don't know what's going on here, we don't know who he knows, we don't know if he's got

0:22.8

weapons, let's just get out of here quickly, so we grabbed our stuff and left, he then followed us

0:30.0

and picked up a big glass bottle and we're shaking it to my direction and then eventually started

0:37.8

running off to me. I'm Jamie BB and I'm Jake Debtula, on today's episode of Storkely Stalking

0:57.2

We're Chatting with Darian, who's being stalked by a stranger he met through a random act of

1:00.8

violence. During a night out, Darian's female friend was sexually assaulted, they quickly left the

1:05.8

scene but the perpetrator followed. He assaulted Darian violently throwing him to the ground and they

1:10.5

called the police. Days later they returned to that part of town and a friend of the perpetrator

1:14.8

confronted them saying that since they called the police they should die. This started a pattern

1:19.5

of revenge stalking and every time Darian encountered this man in public he would launch into an attack

1:23.8

physically and verbally, shutting homophobic slurs at him. Darian did not know the identity of this man

1:29.2

but was finally able to get a clear photo doing one of his attacks and went to the police station

1:33.5

with the new information. Darian believed these were random crimes due to being in the wrong

1:37.7

place at the wrong time but now sees that this person is using stalking to commit hate crimes

1:42.3

against him. Darian thank you for joining us today. Thank you very much for taking the time.

1:47.2

Of course we're definitely glad you're here. Why don't you tell us a little bit about your

1:51.1

home life where you grew up? I'm from London and I had a pretty regular upbringing, very loving and

1:58.7

caring household. I would say that it was quite a lot of violence growing up in the area, quite a

2:08.1

lot of crime and knife violence and gang violence. That was always kind of a theme growing up that

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