Money silence might be costing you more than you think — especially if you're avoiding the one conversation that could reshape your entire financial future. Jean Chatzky joins Brad and Jonathan to explore why we've made money the last taboo, how that silence perpetuates the wage gap, and what it takes to build financial autonomy in relationships. Drawing from her book Women With Money, Chatzky unpacks the emotional triggers behind spending, the mechanics of "money dates," and why financial transparency matters more than we admit. Timestamped Summary: [00:01:41] Relationships and Money: Introducing Jean Chatzky, author of Women With Money, who discusses the intricacies of money and relationships. [00:05:25] Talking About Money: The importance of normalizing money conversations and breaking the taboo around financial discussions. [00:06:36] The Wage Gap: Jean highlights the ongoing issue of the wage gap impacting women's financial autonomy. [00:07:47] Advice for Women Taking Time Off Work: Women should keep a foot in the workforce even while parenting to maintain career connections. [00:10:32] Understanding Personal Money Goals: Identifying what you want from your money is crucial for effective financial planning. [00:21:09] Improving Money Conversations: Creating a comfortable environment for money discussions can help build healthier financial relationships. [00:28:06] Money Dates: Scheduling regular money discussions with your partner, known as "money dates," can help align financial goals. [00:34:11] Financial Infidelity: The concept of financial infidelity and the need for open communication between partners about finances. Key Takeaways: Talking openly about finances normalizes discussions and empowers individuals. Both partners in a relationship should own individual finances while managing shared expenses. Monthly "money dates" help couples discuss and align on financial goals. Action Items: Discuss financial goals with your partner monthly. [00:28:06] Share salary information with trusted friends to promote transparency. [00:52:00] Key Quotes: "Talking about money is essential; we often avoid it." [00:03:51] "Transparency in finances strengthens relationships." [00:38:01] "Understanding your money goals is vital." [00:10:32] Related Resources: Women With Money by Jean Chatzky [01:02:21] Her Money Podcast [01:02:21] Terminology: Wage Gap: The difference in earnings between men and women, often noting women earn less for the same work. [00:06:36] Financial Autonomy: The ability for individuals to make independent decisions about their money. [00:22:41] Financial Infidelity: Dishonesty regarding financial matters in a relationship, including secret spending or debt. [00:34:11] ▶ Listen Next: Ep. 122 — Should You Invest in Dividend Stocks? | Essential Listening