12 Unspoken Rules of Engagement in the Narcissistic Family & the Effect on Future Relationships - Q&A With Julie L. Hall

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

Abuse Survivor Network

Self-improvement, Education, Society & Culture, Relationships

4.8 • 740 Ratings

🗓️ 10 December 2021

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Brandon talks with Julie L. Hall (Author, Researcher & Coach) about the unspoken rules of engagement in the narcissistic family and the effect on future relationships. Plus they discuss, attachment trauma, narcissist behavior, perfectionism, people pleasing, codependency, the normalization of chaos, emotions, vulnerability, depression, boundaries, CPTSD, disconnecting from your body, and much more. Julie can be reached at https://narcissistfamilyfiles.com/ Thank you to our sponsor HELLOFRESH. Go to HelloFresh.com/nap14 and use code nap14 for up to 14 free meals AND 3 free gifts! Enjoy America’s #1 Meal Kit today! Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. Thank you to our sponsor Tru Niagen. Tru Niagen is a supplement that’s clinically proven to boost N-A-D levels, an essential coenzyme required for cellular energy and repair. Add more vitality to your life today, with Tru Niagen. Right now, new customers can save 10% on their first purchase by going to https://TruNiagen.com/nap and use code nap. If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Join our Tiktok at https://www.tiktok.com/@narcissistapocalypse If you want to be a guest on our show, go to https://narcissistapocalypse.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:34.3	author and coach julie l hall about the 12 unspoken rules of engagement in the narcissistic family. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, everyone with me today.
1:09.5	I have Julie L. Hall. How are you? Hi, Brandon. I'm doing great. Thank you.
1:17.6	I'm glad to be back. Well, you're back. You are back. And for those that don't know, you were, I think, our first guest ever on our Q&As in February of 2020, right before the
1:34.4	pandemic hit. You were the first backer of our show of professionals as well. So really,
1:41.2	from the bottom of my heart, thank you so much for being here with us from the
1:45.4	beginning of our Q&A sessions and being a real big supporter of the show.
1:49.9	You know, we discussed in our original conversation, the narcissistic family, specifically
1:58.0	we discussed the scapegoat and the narcissistic family and the
2:01.2	narcissistic family and the role that they played and what they had to endure. And, you know, for those that
2:05.9	don't know Julie, besides being on our podcast way back when, Julie is an author, a journalist, a coach,
2:13.4	and a speaker and your writing has been in psychology today, Reuters, Huffington Post,
2:19.7	the nation, the Seattle Times, the Chicago Sun Times, psych central, and many other news outlets.
2:28.4	You're also the author of the book, The Narcissist in Your Life, recognizing the patterns
2:33.1	and learning to break free.
2:35.3	And your book is often discussed in our support group.
2:39.8	Everyone in our group loves your book.
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