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Hello, hello, hello. Welcome to this episode. It's episode 12. We've been here every week

for 12 weeks. I am so excited. You guys have really given me a reason to show up. I know how much

this podcast means to the ones who return every week, so I'm so glad we're building a community

and just blessings and love to you. Thank you for everyone who subscribes, by the way. It helps

this podcast reach a lot more people and helps me to put more effort in because where energy goes

effort flows as we know. On today's podcast, I want to address this big,

awesome thing about mothering energy and what is a masculine man, not necessarily what he is,

that's left for another episode, but we all know we want to attract a certain type of man.

Intrinsically as a woman, you all know what that type of masculine man is. We know how he acts,

we know what he does, we know what it feels like to be with one. So it's not so much about telling

you what you want. You all know what we want. We all know it. It's more so how do we differentiate

how one speaks to this type of man? What energy should we not deploy when we're speaking to one?

And this feels very conflicting to the messages we always get delivered. Be yourself, say what you

want, do what you like, express yourself, but I really believe that there's some pathological

things that women say that don't show a healthy psychological attitude. And what happens when

you don't show a healthy psychological attitude is you attract men who are not psychologically

able or healthy or grown up enough because if you're psychologically sound, if you are in the

avoidant language, in the attachment language, if you are secure, you will attract a secure person,

two secure people are attracted to one another, two tether, as one might say. Whilst if you have

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