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Todd N Tyler Radio Empire

12/25 App 1 Am I The Asshole?

Todd N Tyler Radio Empire

Todd n Tyler

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4.7819 Ratings

🗓️ 25 December 2025

⏱️ 12 minutes

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0:41.7

All right, as long as we're talking about sex workers, this comes from, am I the asshole?

0:46.8

You're separated.

0:47.9

I thought it was just a story you were going to say.

0:51.9

20-year-old male, I just broke up with my girlfriend, 21-year-old female, kind of wondering if I handled it wrong.

0:57.6

We were together almost a year. Everything was chilled. We got along, great, barely fought. And I really thought we were solid.

1:04.1

A couple of weeks ago, she told me she got a new job as a stripper. At first, I thought she was joking, but she was serious.

1:10.1

She said she needed money and didn't want to keep working retail because the hours sucked. The pay was trash. I get it. She has bills, but I didn't expect that job. That would be the job she picked. She said it was just dancing. Nothing extra. It was good money. She didn't act ashamed about it or anything. I didn't flip out in the moment, and I told her, I don't know how I felt about it. I needed to think. She told me it's her body,

1:31.9

her job, and she's not doing anything wrong with you. Yeah, fair, but honestly, I couldn't get past it.

1:36.3

I kept thinking about her dancing half-naked for random dudes that didn't sit right with me.

1:40.4

I started feeling weird every time I thought about it, like I will be able to fully support that and still feel good in the relationship. So a few days later, I told her I didn't think I could keep doing this. She said, I said, I respected her choice, but it wasn't something I was cool with. She got really mad. It sounds like he's actually did the, I mean, he's actually thought it out. Yeah, he's not sure about it. He didn he didn't ghost her said I was being judgmental and insecure and that I only liked her when it was convenient for me I don't know man I didn't try to control her or tell her not to do it I just said I couldn't be in a relationship where I felt like that all the time he's not the a hole no I know he's not a-hole. Some of my friends say I'm being soft or overthinking it,

2:18.2

but I really didn't want to fake being okay with something I wasn't. Well, there's friends letting him know that when they're not at the strip club watching his girlfriend. A lot of strippers have boyfriends, and they, that's what they, they're just with the boyfriend sexually. But they, you're right. the boyfriend must not care.

2:35.7

But.

2:36.5

To stay in a relationship, the boyfriend must not care. If the guy is not comfortable with it, and he said he's not comfortable with it. Oh, no, he did the right thing. Yeah. Yeah. There are guys are coming with it. I'm sure some guys wouldn't be comfortable. You can't pile on him for that. No, he's not doing To me, it seems like a very mature thing to do. Yeah, he did the, yeah, instead of going in and getting mad at her and yelling at other guys and maybe pulling her off the stage. Like he said, trying to control what she did. He's like, no, you do you, but it's not something that I can deal. Really mature for a guy that age, too.

3:09.7

Yeah.

3:10.2

At 20 years old, I probably would have had no problem dating a stripper because the scene was, you know, full of what we'd like at the time.

3:19.1

Drugs and sex?

3:20.1

Yeah.

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