So we have been, for the last four weeks, we've been faced with this problem.

And our problem is that at the end of our lives, we're going to be judged on love, right?

And the twilight of our lives, we'll be judged on love alone.

And that's a problem because as we've kind of established, maybe you already knew this

going into this advent, you probably already knew that our hearts are small, that are not

only our hearts small, we keep them small.

That's the hard part.

That fact that our hearts are two sizes, two small, like the Grinch, right?

That's not a problem.

I mean, it's okay, but our hearts are too small and we keep them small.

And so the first week we talked about, how do we keep them too small?

Well, we're too full.

And there's no room for them to grow.

We then also realized the second week, we said, the only way to grow them is to be able

to discern what is a value and actually love the things that are worth loving.

So we need to have a bounding love.

But a bounding love is a focused love.

It's a love that says, okay, there are some things not worth my heart.

There are some things that are worth my heart to love those things.

And last week we talked about the fact that, okay, if I'm going to have a focused love,

that means that I'm going to have a magnanimous heart.

And that magnanimous heart is going to be a large heart in this that says, okay, whatever

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