119: If You've Ever Felt “Not Good Enough” for a Relationship...
Love Life with Matthew Hussey
Matthew Hussey
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🗓️ 25 June 2021
⏱️ 16 minutes
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Summary
Last week, we talked about how the right partner will “elevate your best and soothe your worst.”
But what if you feel like your best isn’t good enough? Or you’re afraid your worst will be “too much” for someone?
In this situation, it can be tempting to overcorrect—to go overboard in your efforts to impress someone until they finally discover what you’re “really like.”
In this week’s new episode, I’ll teach you how to shift from looking at yourself through a lens of self-judgment, self-loathing, and self-hatred, and instead view yourself from a place of self-compassion, self-love, and self-empowerment.
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| 0:00.0 | So last week we did a video on how to tell if we are ready for a relationship. |
| 0:08.3 | Being ready to not be lonely anymore is not the same thing as being ready for a relationship. |
| 0:19.0 | And one of the things that you highlighted in the comments from that video that you really loved |
| 0:24.4 | was that line that the right person will elevate our best and soothe our worst. |
| 0:32.4 | Sometimes I think the right person is the person who elevates our best and soothe our worst. |
| 0:36.8 | They're not going to eradicate our worst and it's not their job to take it away, |
| 0:40.8 | but they don't agitate our worst. |
| 0:45.7 | And of course we in turn, when we become the right person, the person who's ready for a real |
| 0:50.9 | relationship will elevate somebody else's best and soothe their worst. |
| 0:55.9 | But what about when we feel like our best won't be good enough for somebody else? |
| 1:03.6 | And our worst will be too much for somebody else. |
| 1:08.3 | This is that particular feeling of being unlovable. |
| 1:13.6 | That often prevents us from finding a relationship, |
| 1:17.1 | really revealing ourselves and connecting. |
| 1:20.7 | Guys, before you carry on with this video, I just wanted to say to you, |
| 1:24.6 | if you haven't booked a spot for my virtual retreat yet in September, please take the time. |
| 1:29.4 | To at least go and see if it could be right for you. |
| 1:32.0 | I have specialists who are waiting to talk to you on the phone and they can also |
| 1:36.6 | any questions you have about it. |
| 1:38.0 | But if you want to graduate from just watching me on YouTube to being part of an immersive coaching program |
| 1:44.4 | with me for your confidence in your wellbeing over three days in September, go check it out. |
| 1:49.2 | It's at MHVertualRetreat.com. |
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