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The Empowered Wife Podcast: Marriage Help with Laura Doyle

118: The Key to Creating Mind-Blowing Intimacy

The Empowered Wife Podcast: Marriage Help with Laura Doyle

Laura Doyle

Education, Relationships, Society & Culture, Self-improvement

4.71.1K Ratings

🗓️ 22 February 2022

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

If you're longing for intimacy with your man like I used to and not getting it, you may not feel like there's a key to creating it. If it's just been so long since you felt emotionally, physically and spiritually intimate, you may have steeled yourself so you don't even feel the longing anymore. That's a logical thing to do if you keep hoping and keep getting let down. I felt the same way in the bad old days of my marriage. But staying guarded and giving up on intimacy wasn't a real solution. The pain was still there, and hardening my heart like that was pretty much guaranteeing that I would NEVER have the soft, mushy connection I had long dreamed of having. That's because there is a formula for creating intimacy. On today's episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we're talking about the key to creating mind-blowing intimacy. 

My guest Danielle's husband traveled a lot but couldn't even make the time to call her. She felt so unloved. They were speaking past each other and the more unheard she felt, the more she nagged. It was ugly! But when Danielle changed it up, her husband chatted and chatted with her and is now always checking in on her. She says she realizes she has a great man who loves her and does want to help!

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Empowered Wife podcast where it's all about fixing your marriage without your man's conscious effort.

0:15.8

So you feel desired and taken care of and special even if your relationship feels completely hopeless.

0:23.4

I'm Laura Doyle and today I'm talking about the key to creating mind-blowing intimacy.

0:30.6

My guest Danielle's husband traveled a lot but couldn't make the time to call her.

0:35.0

She felt so unloved.

0:37.0

They were speaking past each other and the more she felt unheard, the more she nagged, it was ugly. But when Danielle changed it up, her husband

0:47.1

chatted and chatted with her and is now always checking in on her. She

0:51.9

says she realizes she has a great man who loves her and does

0:56.6

want to help. Then I'll be giving out the worst relationship advice of the

1:01.0

Week Award which is from a Facebook meme that sounds just

1:03.9

like conventional wisdom. All that's coming up but first I'm going to share the

1:10.3

key to creating mind-blowing intimacy.

1:13.0

If you're longing for intimacy with your man, like I used to,

1:18.0

and not getting it, you may not feel like there is a key to creating it. If it's just been so long since you felt

1:26.1

emotionally, physically, spiritually intimate, you may have steeled yourself so you

1:31.4

don't even feel the longing anymore and that's logical to do if you

1:37.1

feel like you keep hoping and you keep getting let down. I thought the same way in my marriage in the bad old days. But staying

1:46.2

guarded and giving up on having intimacy wasn't a real solution because for one

1:51.8

thing the pain was still there, gnawing at me. And even worse,

1:58.0

hardening my heart like that was pretty much guaranteeing that I would never have the soft,

2:04.8

mushy connection that I had long dreamed of having.

2:08.1

That's because there's a formula for creating intimacy and one of the key ingredients is vulnerability

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