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The Suzanne Venker Show

117. The Roots of Adolescents' Mental-Health Crisis: Erica Komisar

The Suzanne Venker Show

Suzanne Venker

Society & Culture

4.9 โ€ข 650 Ratings

๐Ÿ—“๏ธ 26 September 2021

โฑ๏ธ 46 minutes

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Summary

Are you struggling to raise emotionally healthy, resilient adolescents in this fast-paced, ever-changing world? America has an epidemic of mental health disorders in adolescents that has made parenting even more challenging, but parents can still have an enormous impact on the health and well-being of their children. In her new book, Chicken Little: The Sky Isn't Falling, Erica Komisar offers parents the tools they need to navigate this tumultuous time of change and create a continuous deep connection with their children. Erica is a psychoanalyst and parent guidance expert who has been in private practice in New York City for over 30 years. She's also the author of Being There:ย Why Prioritizing Motherhood in the First Three Years Matters. 7:00ย  Teenagers still need their parents' guidance, even though teens tend to push their parents away ย  8:40ย  Covid exacerbated mental health issues and distress in younger people ย  11:30ย  There's a tremendous amount of sacrifice involved if you're going to raise and care for children well ย  13:40ย  We have placed more emphasis on money and career success than on caring for children ย  16:30ย  The best way to help quell the mental health crisis in children and adolescents is to prevent it from developing ย  19:00ย  Our society is achievement focused, rather than focused on emotional health, etc. ย  19:30ย  We โ€œcheck outโ€ of our childrenโ€™s lives and simultaneously expect them to achieve more ย  20:00ย  Poverty can cause depression and so can affluenceโ€”in the same way. ย  22:00ย  Erica talks about her new book, Chicken Little. ย  23:00ย  At its root, anxiety is fear ย  24:00ย  The push for early independence is backfiring ย  24:30ย  The internet and social media has had a corrosive impact on the mental health of adolescence ย  27:30ย  Video games and tech additions are symptoms of anxiety and depression ย  31:40ย  Parents must be present during adolescence ย  34:00ย  You cannot protect your adolescent from pain and frustration, but it is a parents job to help them process it ย  35:00ย  Too many choices cause problems ย  38:35ย  We help shape our childrenโ€™s identity over time. Parenting is also about helping your children take things OFF their plate. ย  41:00ย  Women/Girls get the message about having to โ€œbe somethingโ€ more than boys/men ย  42:00 - PARENTS MATTER! ๐—•๐˜‚๐˜† ๐—›๐—ผ๐˜„ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—š๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐—›๐—ถ๐˜๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฑ (๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฆ๐˜๐—ฎ๐˜† ๐—›๐—ถ๐˜๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฑ) ๐—ก๐—ข๐—ช: https://amzn.to/38naFOL Want to be as successful in love as you are at life? Go to http://www.suzannevenker.com and ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜ ๐Ÿฏ ๐—™๐—ฅ๐—˜๐—˜ ๐—ฒ๐—•๐—ผ๐—ผ๐—ธ๐˜€ to begin your journey! ๐—ฆ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ป ๐˜‚๐—ฝ ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ฎ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐˜‡๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ: https://www.suzannevenker.com/relationship-coaching/ ๐—ช๐—ฒ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป'๐˜ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—น๐—ถ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฝ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜! ๐—•๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—บ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฃ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ผ๐—ณ ๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐˜‚๐˜‡๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ ๐—ฉ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐—ธ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ฆ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜„: ย https://www.patreon.com/thesuzannevenkershow

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0:00.0

Hey everyone. Okay, I have a couple of quick announcements. You don't want to miss these. I'm very excited

0:07.4

about them and I hope you will be as well. Through the months of September and October, I'm going to be doing bonus podcast episodes on Tuesdays and Thursdays. These episodes will be shorter in duration just about 15 minutes than the typical show.

0:22.6

So if you get, if you're someone who gets notifications whenever a new episode of the Suzanne

0:26.4

Benker Show has been uploaded, you're now going to get three notifications instead of one.

0:32.3

So I'll pop up on your phone a couple of times a week.

0:35.7

And hopefully that's a good thing because the point is to

0:38.8

not bug you, but to give you much needed inspiration. So that's one thing. And then also we'll

0:46.1

see how that goes. And if that continues to go really well, we'll continue that beyond October.

0:50.7

But for now, I've just committed to September and October, mostly to cover so much of the content in my new book, How to Get Hitched and Stay Hitched, because there's

0:58.4

just way more in there than meets the eye just from the title. So that's part of the reason

1:03.1

why I'm going to be doing this. Okay, also, I will be speaking live. I know post-COVID. It's so

1:10.0

amazing to get out into the world. I will be speaking

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live in Orlando, Florida on October 23rd at the 22 convention, which was founded by

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Anthony Johnson, an American entrepreneur whose mission is to abolish feminism and get this,

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make women great again.

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Needless to say, that title perked my interest.

1:36.7

And you'll see why when you take a look at what this is all about,

1:38.2

why we're definitely a match.

1:38.8

Let's put that way.

1:46.8

It is time to reject once and for all the toxic feminist dogma that undermines your ability to love and understand men and to build strong families. I would love to meet and talk with any one of my

1:53.8

readers or listeners or followers or clients in Orlando. And the best part is fans of Suzanne

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