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Earn Your Happy

117: Don't BLOCK Your BLESSINGS

Earn Your Happy

Lori Harder

Business, Entrepreneurship

4.82.8K Ratings

🗓️ 23 March 2017

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

Naturally, especially as woman (although this most definitely can go both ways,) we tend to deflect compliments, which I translate into “blocking your blessings.” Today’s quickie is all about receiving. Accepting and fully embodying what it feels like to be love and be loved. “If someone goes out of their way to compliment you and you deflect it, you may actually be hurting them.” As you know, giving compliments is a brave task. It can be used to break the ice on a first date, or a way to get attention from someone you admire etc…So just as much as it is brave to GIVE the compliment, it is equally as brave if not more, to fully RECEIVE the compliment. “By not accepting a compliment, you are blocking the fact that someone observes something amazing in you and they are wanting to celebrate with you.” As humans, who want to remain “humble,” we try to either turn the compliment completely around and end up complimenting them OR we tend to neutralize the compliment but putting negative talk around it. “Accepting a compliment is a self-love practice!” Stop having to have a reason for why you do something good for yourself. Knowing you are worth it, is reason enough! In This Episode You Will Learn About: Self love Practices Blessing Blocks Complimenting Accepting Receiving Deflecting Knowing your worth Resources: fortheloveofmoney.com For The Love of Money Podcast by: Chris Harder Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook. You can also see more at my website: LoriHarder.com

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Earn Your Happy Podcast.

0:11.8

I'm Lori Harder, founder of the Bullys Project 3 Time Fitness World Champion Fitness

0:16.7

Expert and Cover Model turned self-love junky lifestyle entrepreneur and author.

0:23.4

Each week I'll bring you a guest or a thought that will help you bust through your fears

0:27.5

and connect to your soul and get focused and clear so you can elevate your life, business

0:33.3

and relationships.

0:35.1

We don't wait until we're ready for someone to tell us we're good enough, we take what

0:39.6

we want and we annoy ourselves.

0:43.2

Get ready to earn, own, and unapologetically rock your happiness every single day.

0:51.5

Are you with me?

0:52.8

Here we go.

0:58.5

Welcome back to the Earn Your Happy Podcast and it is time for another quickie because

1:02.8

there's always time to fit in inspiration.

1:06.4

And today I'm going to teach you a really quick thing that you can do to amp up your self-love

1:12.6

practice in a really quick way and also in a way that really helps you connect to people

1:17.2

and have them start really seeing your value and appreciating you even more.

1:24.2

So that is accepting and receiving compliments and blessings.

1:30.4

So believe it or not, something that especially if you're a woman you have been raised to

1:35.0

believe that you are meant to deflect compliments, whether you realize it or not, most of us

1:40.8

have been raised that way.

1:42.8

And why do we do that?

1:43.8

A lot of times it is to give the appearance or to prove that we are humble human beings,

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