What's up guys it's Andy Priscilla and this is the show for the real estate goodbye to the lies the fakeness and delusions of modern society and welcome to mother fucking reality guys

today I've got a short episode informative episode that you're gonna want to hear because I think it's gonna provide a lot of benefit to you before I get into it I want to remind you that we do not run ads for the show I don't run ads on the show I try to provide as much value for you guys as I can without annoying the shit out of everybody and in return we do ask something we ask that you know you share the show share the podcast

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but I like to remind you guys to do that for me as well so I really appreciate that you know we've been one of the top podcasts in the world since 2016 all because of the fact that you guys pay the fee so thank you for doing that and thank you for

for you know running on the honor system you know today not not everybody's willing to do that so I really really appreciate it now today we're gonna talk about self awareness all right and the reason self awareness is important well first off before I get into how

why it's important it's it's something that confuses people you know I see a lot of people out there talking about self awareness with with literally zero self awareness I think a lot of people think it's

something that it isn't I think a lot of people are confused about what it might be and today I want to I want to kind of give you an intro to how to become self aware and how to you know understand what this concept really is and it's not

going to take me long to explain it now this isn't going to be an in-depth you know course on self awareness this is a fucking five or 10 minute deal all right it's really simple so what is

self awareness self awareness guys is a critical part of taking control of your life and achieving all of your goals no matter what aspect they happen to be in okay you have to understand where you are who you are and what you are to ever get where you want to go that's the

first step in the process being self were also allows you to understand what you're good at and what you need to improve on all right and here's the most important thing as it relates to you guys.

You guys are out there trying to be better you're trying to build businesses you're trying to get better at what it is you do to do so you're going to have to become a great leader now you cannot ever be a great leader if you're not very self aware okay you have to recognize

what you're great at and you have to recognize what other people are great at and you have to figure out how to make this all work in harmony like the conductor of a big orchestra but the problem is is that most people don't even know what

self awareness is or why it's important okay so how do we become more self aware well it's very simple all right it's the concept of questioning your actions or decisions as they're happening all right is eating this doughnut going to help me with my weight loss goals okay being aware of what actions will allow you to get on track to achieving your goals and which ones will actually hold you back is a very important

important concept for you to not only understand but to practice because getting anywhere in life it you first have to know where you are and what you're capable of and what you're good at what you're not good at and so many people like to cover this with so many

justifications you know I wasn't born smart I wasn't born gifted or everybody hates me or I can't control myself or this or that or this you have to be aware that those are all excuses and they're just stories that you told

yourself that don't allow you to make progress towards where you want to go and this is also why your confidence is also probably low okay when you build yourself awareness you build your confidence what does that mean well

what it means is when you have high confidence you stop doubting yourself over time but you know on the other side you don't overestimate yourself okay this is an important concept for you to understand this is why this show is called real AF

because it's about telling yourself the truth it's about reality it's not about what you think you might be it's not about what your friends think you are it's not about what your parents think you are it's about what you actually are

okay so becoming self awareness and building our confidence go hand in hand and you have to understand to do that you have to be able to ask yourself as things are happening is this serving me or is this not serving me is this movie closer to where I want to be or is this moving me further away from where I want to be

okay this is what it looks like in real life as you're doing it I'm talking about as you're standing at the fucking order counter of McDonald's and you're looking up at the thing and you're like shit I know I shouldn't be eating this then you don't

okay that's being self aware and then following through on the actions that your self awareness props into your brain okay so let me ask you something else

are you even aware of how much confidence you have and don't have are you good at your craft are you bad at your craft are you mediocre at your craft or you a

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