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The Suzanne Venker Show

114. Kacey Musgrave's New 'Breadwinner' Song

The Suzanne Venker Show

Suzanne Venker

Society & Culture

4.9650 Ratings

🗓️ 19 September 2021

⏱️ 27 minutes

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Summary

Suzanne discusses singer/songwriter Kacey Musgraves's new song, 'Breadwinner,' which blames men for what happens when wives earn more.

IN THIS EPISODE:

3:50  Suzanne introduces the new song by Kacey Musgraves's 'Breadwinner'

7:25  Many women and men don't understand how the female breadwinner issue will affect their marriages

8:50  60% of Suzanne’s coaching clients are in a situation where the women earn more

10:05  Men AND women don't like when women earn more

11:30  The cultural narrative blames gender "stereotypes” and gender "expectations”

13:15  A man’s ability to earn is inextricably tied to his identity.

13:50  Women do not work out of a desire to provide for their husbands

14:50  When a woman has an all-consuming career, much like Musgraves', her relationships (and children if she has them) take a back seat

19:40  As long as the woman is earning, the man’s motivation will fall away

20:10  Men don’t get threatened by a woman earning more; it simply deflates them. Men and women are motivated by different things

21:40  The male breadwinner norm won’t change because women want men who earn the same as they do or more

22:00  This song resonates for women today because so many women are out-earning their partners

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey everyone. Okay, I have a couple of quick announcements. You don't want to miss these. I'm very excited about them and I hope you will be as well. Through the months of September and October, I'm going to be doing bonus podcast episodes on Tuesdays and Thursdays. These episodes will be shorter in duration just about 15 minutes than the typical show.

0:21.4

So if you get,

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if you're someone who gets notifications whenever a new episode of the Suzanne Benker Show has been uploaded,

0:26.1

you're now going to get three notifications instead of one.

0:30.6

So I'll pop up on your phone a couple of times a week.

0:33.8

And hopefully that's a good thing because the point is to not bug you, but to give you

0:39.1

much needed inspiration. So that's one thing. And then also we'll see how that goes. And if that

0:45.6

continues to go really well, we'll continue that beyond October. But for now, I've just committed to

0:50.2

September and October, mostly to cover so much of the content in my new book,

0:54.4

how to get hitched and stay hitched because there's just way more in there than meets the

0:58.8

eye just from the title. So that's part of the reason why I'm going to be doing this.

1:03.2

Okay. Also, I will be speaking live. I know post-COVID. It's so amazing to get out into the world.

1:10.5

I will be speaking live in Orlando,

1:12.7

Florida on October 23rd at the 22 convention, which was founded by Anthony Johnson, an American

1:19.2

entrepreneur whose mission is to abolish feminism and get this, make women great again. Needless to say, that title perked my interest. And you'll see why, when you take a look at what this is all about, why we're definitely a match. Let's put that way. It is time to reject once and for all the toxic feminist dogma that undermines your ability to love and understand

1:45.8

men and to build strong families. I would love to meet and talk with any one of my readers or

1:52.6

listeners or followers or clients in Orlando. And the best part is fans of Suzanne Banker get a

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2:08.1

V-E-N-K-25 when you go to checkout.

2:12.1

This is, again, on October 23rd, of course, the conference itself goes on longer than one day, but that's when I'll be speaking.

2:22.1

My podcast producer, Kelsey and I will be there selling books, chatting it up, and having an all-around blast.

2:27.3

So we hope to see you all there. And yes, it will be this speaking, the speech, if you want to call it that, the talk,

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