114: Confidence in Dating Is Hard: 2 Ways to Boost Yours Immediately

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

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🗓️ 1 June 2021

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Summary

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We’re told all our lives that confidence is the key to everything from our careers to our love lives, but few things can feel more nebulous or fleeting.

Even when we finally achieve the things we thought would give us confidence, it often slips just a little more out of reach.

Life becomes a chase of “I’ll finally feel confident when . . .” and that “when” rarely materializes.

In today’s episode, I’ll show you how to craft a confidence that’s unique to you: one that doesn’t rely on the achievement of some external goal, and one deeply rooted in who you ALREADY are.

P.S. Be sure to listen all the way to the end to discover the secret project I’ve been working on and how you can be a part of it. This one’s HUGE. I’ve never done anything like it, and it won’t cost you a thing.

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0:00.0	I'm not a fan of the word, but I'm not a fan of the word.
0:04.4	Stay till the end of this video, no matter what else you do, because I have something very
0:08.8	special to announce at the end of it that I have never, ever done before, and it is going
0:14.8	to change the game on your confidence.
0:18.5	Well, we did a video last week, and I asked you to leave a comment.
0:22.2	I said, here's the comment, I love you leave me.
0:25.4	What is the thing that you feel is holding you back from being the most confident version
0:31.5	of yourself?
0:32.5	Here's what you wrote.
0:33.5	The thing that's holding me back from being the most confident version of myself is the
0:37.6	fact that every relationship that I have had in the last several years, mostly short-term,
0:43.0	ended with the person leaving me.
0:45.0	Chronic health problems.
0:47.1	Most guys wouldn't want to deal with them or have the maturity to embrace me with them.
0:51.3	But yesterday I had a realization that my crush may not be as interested in me as I am
0:57.2	in him.
0:58.2	The thing that makes me insecure is my age.
1:00.6	I'm almost in the mid-30s, me too, Stephen, and seeing all of the other friends married
1:08.0	or have partners in life makes me feel bad for myself and worthless.
1:12.6	Well, I suppose part of the link between all of these things is that there is a universality
1:19.0	to insecurity, to having our confidence knocked at different stages of our life.
1:24.9	I mean, that's the thing about confidence, isn't it?
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