What's going on guys welcome back to episode 113 back to the podcast if you guys are listening on Apple whatever all those things subscribe do all that if you're on YouTube subscribe share with the thread all of those things over the next couple of weeks

outside of the ones that we we do with a couple of guests have a couple of great guests that you guys are going to love when they come in share some information actually probably going to be recording that soon as I hang up on this one

but you guys are going to love those episodes that we have coming but for the next couple of episodes I want to do a little series maybe two or three episodes just simply talking about the harsh truth regarding dating

so mentioning some of the negative aspects and how I guess we should combat that or how we should have a proper perspective concerning those things so for those listening and your new

I pray that you enjoy the edifice in some way shape or form and today I want to start it off talking about this you will never be good enough for the wrong person and I think that is so important that we address that just address that situation

because there are so many people that believe only if I just do this or only if I just do that or only if I look a certain way or we find all of the things that were wrong with us

you know what I mean and we make all the excuses in a book for why we've been down we make all the excuses and we talk about the things are well they didn't want to be with me because of this and we say all these things and I'm not saying every relationship that you get in has to work but I want you to understand that no matter how amazing you are

it's not going to work with the right person like I heard a person say something I yeah I'll just briefly touch on this because this would be another one of the topics but I heard someone say something along the lines of you can't

keep a man the only thing that can keep a man is a man that wants to be kept and I think a lot of people need to understand that but I'm not going to dive into that one because that's another one that's a part of one of

future episodes that's coming along in this series but the reason I say that is because there are a lot of people especially women and they get more insecure in that arena because every time they try to

please a man that man walks away from them or he doesn't do anything and people made it you know a big deal when you know there was a scandal with Beyonce and her husband and they're like well

if Jay Zing and keep it together and I don't have a little like Beyonce then there is no hope for me and it's like ladies not I know let's not use the bad examples to happen

and anyone else is like try to make that God's will for our life or make that God's plan for our life but I do want you to understand when we're with someone that probably God didn't or

for us chances are we may be fighting an uphill battle because you're in a relationship with someone God didn't desire for you to be with someone to talk a little bit about that

mentioned just a couple of relationships and the scriptures that talk about someone who was with someone and how they either love things about them or

dislike things about them no matter what happened and I want to start it off focusing on Jacob and Leah many of you guys if you even if you've never read the whole Bible you've probably read Genesis

so you I'm sure you you know a little bit about this story but I'm going to read a few verses out of Genesis I'll read Genesis 29 16 through 18 in the NLT it says now

that the baby had two daughters the older daughter was named Leah and the younger was Rachel there was no sparkle in Leah's eyes but Rachel had a beautiful figure and a lovely face

since Jacob was in love with Rachel he told her father I will work for you for seven years if you will give me Rachel your younger daughter as my wife

so this man sees this girl man she's the baddest thing on a block he sees the older sister she's not attractive enough for me that's not the woman I'm going to pursue so I'm going to go ahead and pursue after the one that you know it's catching my attention a beautiful one

that's what Jacob is like hey that's the one I want and a dad pulls a fast one on him I'm sorry if I'm I'm not trying you know belittle anyone's intelligence but some people probably don't know the story so just talking a little bit about it but he sees that you know hey you want to marry my younger daughter but the custom here is the older daughter

needs to get married first so when Jacob thinks he's about to wake up in the middle of the night and see wake up in the morning and see that he's with his beautiful wife Rachel he wakes up and realized the dad pulled a fast one and he married to other woman

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