111: 6 Texts That Move Your Relationship Forward

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 15 May 2021

⏱️ 7 minutes

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Learn The Simple Text Response to Regain Momentum in Your Relationship.

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It’s happened to the best of us.

The flirty text banter that used to cause a surge of adrenaline has become pedestrian. And pretty soon “How was your day?” becomes “How was your week?”

Or perhaps they initiate a text conversation and tell you what they’re up to, but never actually ask you out.

Fortunately, all it takes is one small shift to turn it all around. If you’ve lost momentum with someone, feel your momentum is headed in the wrong direction, or just want to improve your communication, this week’s episode is a must-listen.

I give you 6 specific text messages you can use or adapt to transform your current situation. The great news is that you only need to try one of these 6 texts to change your dynamic right now.

Be sure to let me know which one you try first! You can email the show at [email protected]

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0:00.0	There's a particular problem people are having in dating today.
0:06.2	It's been going on for quite some time and it's the problem of things never really going
0:11.1	anywhere.
0:12.1	You start talking to someone on a dating app, you start texting them, but you either get
0:17.4	no momentum with them or it plateaus at a certain point and doesn't go anywhere after
0:23.0	that.
0:24.0	All the momentum completely dies.
0:27.0	Now I know you guys like it when I bring you something practical, something you can use
0:30.7	today.
0:31.7	So I'm going to give you six specific text messages that you can use or you can just take
0:37.3	the principle behind them and craft something of your own that utilizes that principle.
0:44.4	Because what this is all about is getting momentum.
0:48.8	Number one, add a human detail to your text messages.
0:52.6	It's one thing for someone to say, how's your day going?
0:54.8	And you say, it's going well, thanks.
0:56.5	How's yours?
0:57.5	It's another thing to say, it's going well.
0:59.6	I'm about to go on a run.
1:01.4	That gives someone a detail, something they can craft a conversation out of.
1:05.6	Or you could go one step further and say, it's going well, thanks.
1:08.2	I'm about to go on a run.
1:09.2	I'm dragging my little brother with me.
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