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Earn Your Happy

110: Secrets to Attracting and Mastering Relationships with Rachel DeAlto

Earn Your Happy

Lori Harder

Entrepreneurship, Business

4.82.8K Ratings

🗓️ 27 February 2017

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Summary

Rachel DeAlto is a relationship expert, coach, hypnotherapist, motivational speaker, author, and spokesperson. She believes that relationships are the foundation of everything, and it is essential to learn to navigate those relationships with great communication, a sense of perspective, and self-awareness. Rachel believes in the art of communication, and its inherent value in all aspects of your life. She developed her communications expertise through an undergraduate degree from the S.I. Newhouse School of Public Communications at Syracuse University and later as a practicing trial attorney after receiving her Juris Doctorate at Seton Hall University School of Law. She has also received professional training as a certified coach through the Institute of Professional Excellence in Coaching (IPEC) and is a certified hypnotherapist via the International Association Of Counselors & Therapists (IACT). Rachel is a featured relationship expert on FYI’s Married at First Sight and Second Chances. Rachel has also appeared on a multitude of media outlets and is also a frequent TEDx speaker. Coming from a law background, coaching one’s love life was kind of something that Rachel sort of “feel into.” Continuing her education to become a coach, Rachel once again went back to school, but this time for the polar-opposite subject…love. “Relationship coaching came from my natural desire to help people, as did being a lawyer” As one of my favorite topics to talk about (love and relationships) I got some juicy details out of Rachel! She opens up to us about frequently asked questions in her field along with helpful tips and advice to not only FIND love, but to KEEP love. As powerful women AND men, it’s important to know that “the more you are, the more you expect,” when it comes to finding the one. Understand that the “intimidation factor” is also real, it is very real ladies and gentlemen! Having it all and looking the part to match, isn’t always the easiest to approach. Finding love takes just as much effort on your end, as it does theirs. “I feel like expectations can kind-of be a killer. You can have desires, but don’t expect every man you meet to live up to them.” Rachel also shares with us one of the first steps she goes through with her clients. “I ask them what are the four things they look for in someone that they couldn't live without? I only give them four!” “No one is perfect, but it's more about finding someone who fits with you perfectly.” Looking to find love? Or maybe enhance your current relationship with some extra fire?! Tune in for some of the greatest love advice I’ve ever heard! Rachel is the real deal y’all…you can thank me later ;) In This Episode You Will Learn About: Relationships Love Partnership Coaching Communication Finding “the one” Patience Dating Self-awareness Getting clear Expectations Resources: RachelDeAlto.com If you agree that it is time to have the love life that you deserve, you can find more from Rachel at racheldealto.com and also @racheldealto on social media! Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook. You can also see more at my website: LoriHarder.com

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey everyone, everybody's talking about forming new habits, new you, new life.

0:08.6

You guys, change your habits, change your life, right?

0:11.1

That's all we talk about.

0:12.5

And I'm sure you've started some new habits this year.

0:14.5

I know that I have, but how are you going to track those habits?

0:17.8

Because what you don't measure doesn't get results.

0:21.0

And have you ever wondered which of your habits are the most important and how often should

0:25.2

you track?

0:26.2

I'm daily, weekly, monthly.

0:27.4

A lot of people know that they need to improve their habits, but they don't know where to

0:30.8

start.

0:31.8

I have suffered with this as well.

0:33.5

And that's why I think you're going to love growth day.

0:35.5

It's the world's number one self improvement system.

0:38.3

I have committed to using it daily.

0:41.2

If you go watch my stories, you're going to see that I have been using their journaling

0:45.8

system and their tracking system.

0:47.5

And I am obsessed.

0:48.5

This is something that I do in my life.

0:50.4

Chris has committed with me.

0:52.0

Growth day helps you track proven habits that lead to long term success, well being, and

0:56.5

positive relationships.

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