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What is up gentlemen? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP happy Monday

I hope this weekend treated you well. I know it certainly did for me and guys

I've been advertising a lot lately man, and it's funny to me when I read other people's reviews

There's like people hating on them because they advertise their services, and I'm like, yo this guy's giving you so much freaking information

And all he's doing is telling you about his services, which is the way he makes money and you're getting all but heard about it

Unfortunately, I've never once had anybody say that I do it too often, but I try not to do it too much because I know it could get a little bit old

So on that note, we are going to skip all the blatant advertising of my coaching program this week if you're interested in that just listen to some previous episode

I tell you and this is sincere man. I get so many damn reviews. I just want to read every single damn one to you guys because I believe so much in my coaching that I go a little hard sometimes in the paint

So we're going to go ahead and skip that and instead jump straight into 11 that's right 11 signs that you are becoming an alpha male

See, these are things that are contingent on other people because while I was telling you guys to be highly internally motivated only care about your own filter

You know, we still have to take signs from the outside people and those things that they tell us to let us know kind of like what our progress is

Certainly we can see our own progress just by our own filters, but when you start getting more girls when people start saying things which we're going to talk about in this episode

Then you're like, okay, the work I'm really doing all myself is really paying off and the reason I want to do this episode is because I get told by my clients all the time usually around week six and it's a 12 week coaching program probably about halfway through they always say like hey my mom, my brother, my sisters, my coworkers, my friends have all been noticing something different in me and they usually say something along the lines of what's different about you you seem like you're in a good place or

You seem just like you're holding yourself differently or you're more confident or they say a number of different things and the reason for that is my guys are doing work on themselves

So are you getting people telling you those things if you are then you know that you're changing and today we're going to go over 11 subtle signs you're becoming an alpha male

And all right, the first sign that you're becoming an alpha male is people tell you that you're changing, okay, people like your mom, your brothers, your friends, your siblings, they're like there's something different about you what's what's going on with you have you been eating differently

Have you been happier lately is something my clients hear a lot of the time so when people tell you you're changing that is definitely a sign that you should be paying attention to

To confirm that indeed you're becoming that alpha silverback girl magnet sign number two is people start testing you and a lot of you guys have had experience with this where

You're at the night clubs at the bars you're at work and your friends or acquaintances kind of start throwing some stuff at you man and this is what we call frame checks and my coach and they're basically checking your frame and your frame is your perception of reality

So they may insult you a little bit they may try to get you to do favors for them whereas before they never did that stuff why is that well before you were probably a little bit submissive you didn't quite have that alpha vibe about you so they didn't feel the need to test you

They were like this guy knows where he's at in the pecking order and with humans we can often compare it to a pecking order right it's like chickens in a pecking order well when you start improving yourself when you really start advancing in your own confidence as well as your own frame

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