Just the fact, you know, you think about getting shot in the head, most times, you think

that's fatal.

You know, the stuff we've worked at, that's like how somebody even survives long enough

to be able to drive, to even get to the hospital.

I mean, you're right, you talk about the will to survive, the will to win.

It's obvious you've got that, but from the time, how long, so walk us through to after

you get the news, you've got to make arrangements, obviously, do they, do they bring him back

down to Florida?

Do you go to Philadelphia?

How does that work?

So I never, we got the news after the funeral.

And so I, as, wait a minute, nobody, did they not know or did they just not tell you?

They didn't know where to track my mother down at.

We were still in Florida, had moved over with family on the west coast of Florida.

And the story, the story was that they didn't know where to track her down at.

And there wasn't a huge push on his side of the family.

And I, again, I want to spare it to them.

I had a hard time with this for a long time.

There wasn't a big effort to try and find her from the family's point of view.

And so when, when they finally did find her information, it was the, the city of Philadelphia,

homicide department that called her.

I know you don't want to disparage him.

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