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I'm Jace.

I'm Amelaine.

And I'm Dedaker.

And this is the Multiamari Podcast.

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So today, I'm not sure if you guys knew this, but it's Valentine's Day today.

Right? Valentine's Day today.

day is an interesting holiday, especially for people in

non-traditional relationships because we're not the ones who are

marketed to by everybody, which I guess is like kind of a bummer to get

left out but in some ways it's like kind of nice that it's like you know what cool you

guys do your thing we'll do our thing we don't we don't know how to sell to you so we won't try to you know shovel our stuff in your faces.

Right, but we did want to go for a quick little fun trip down history lane.

For those of you who have read Dedaker's book, The Smart Girls Guide

to Polyamary, there's an amazing history section on the unwritten history of Polyamary, and we're going to do the same thing right now

even though it has already been written down about the history of

Valentine's. Take it away back here. Yeah so I mean most people know that it's

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