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Havilah's Podcast

106: Working Through Fears and Constraints

Havilah's Podcast

Havilah Cunnington

Religion & Spirituality

4.92.2K Ratings

🗓️ 9 April 2019

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

Today I have a special guest with me. Not only is he my baby-maker and the love of my life but he is also my business partner and ministry partner. We were having a conversation in our kitchen, and I thought this would be something you could benefit from too.

We’ve been running Truth to Table full-time for two and a half years now, and we feel like we are no longer in survival mode. We now ask ourselves, how do we move forward? I’ve been struggling with knowing when certain thoughts are fear or wisdom. A lot of the hesitations I have are not grounded in wisdom but in fear of going without. It’s been hard for me to admit because I usually would not say I’m a fearful person but more of a risk-taker. But when I’m not doing well, I grow resistant towards situations and people due to fear. I’ve had to do some work internally to get rid of that child-like fear of being trapped in a painful situation.

In this podcast, I want to share with you how I work through these fears and constraints.

I hope this encourages you today and that you can learn from my story.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This is Habla Cunnington and this is Habla's podcast. Today I have a special guest. Not only is he my baby maker and

0:21.4

and the love of my life but he also is my business partner and ministry partner and work out partner. Work out partner yes yes and more ways than one.

0:33.2

A venture partner. Travel partner. Travel partner. It's anything shopping partner. Carpool partner.

0:40.1

Carpool partner. Yeah discipline partner. Yes all the above and today I thought we were having a conversation in our kitchen and I thought gosh this is something that I hope that our listeners can learn how to process and how we process our own life because just because you are a leader or you run something maybe you're a forward thought forward thought and I say that forward thinking. Thank you.

1:10.1

And you write your own you know you're an author or I was thinking of just even you know you're an adult right like your right here 35 you're 40 you're 50 you think like I should you know know how to do this or that or whatever you think I don't know.

1:25.1

Yeah I agree and I am always amazed that when we start talking through things I love I love our process and we always have to just talk it through and I think that's part of the.

1:36.7

The secret to working together living together being married is you have to talk you have to communicate and you can't assume that you know why someone wants to do something or that you think that they.

1:47.5

Should want this certain thing but you really have to just be willing to let the other person share their thoughts without judgment and letting them kind of process.

1:57.5

So today you know we're in a unique season I think as the Cunnington family we are celebrating how long have we been doing truth to table full time.

2:06.7

About a year and a half about a year and a half that's wild yeah you're in a half and we're kind of in this season where we're no longer in this survival we got to.

2:15.9

Start fresh we've got you know we're not opening new offices and we're hiring new people and we're kind of in this place where we're beginning to establish who we are and.

2:26.5

With that comes a great a bit a great deal of responsibility and some of the stuff we're weighing out right now is how do we move forward instead of.

2:36.5

Feeling well I'll just put it this way I have.

2:41.5

I've been struggling with knowing what is wisdom and what is fear and that's something that I am really processing because I don't know if you are an anyogram fan I'm we are any

2:54.9

grand fans I don't know if you I'm sorry if that is a total turn off for you but for us it's been really critical in our marriage and learning about each other and we love it we have all the books ourselves in ourselves yeah learning to not partner with weakness but.

3:10.3

Being willing to see our own restraints and learning how to love someone I feel like it's giving us empathy probably towards each other for sure yeah yeah a lot a lot of empathy and so we are in this place now where.

3:25.1

After learning about ourselves I'm realizing I'm a I'm a seven wing eight if you're wondering what I am and you are.

3:32.5

I'm a one wing nine yeah we're like the opposites it is true however yeah when I'm doing really really good.

3:40.1

I'm healthy actually like would move more towards the seven and have more you know kind of spot Navy and like be willing and I'm always up for things yeah it's funny when we first started doing the anyogram I was like that looks like a

3:54.1

satanic star.

3:58.1

Somebody even recommended at one point like years ago and I was like yeah no that's very confusing I don't know what you're talking about and it wasn't until we hit a roadblock in our lives where we had some people counseling us and they.

4:13.1

Just began to talk about the anyogram and how the power of self awareness knowing who we are and the anyogram if you don't know what it is that I'm not the one to really share all of it but if you.

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