1035: How to Create Stronger Connections by Disagreeing Better with Bob Bordone

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🗓️ 24 February 2025

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

Bob Bordone discusses the importance of building conflict resilience and how it can help you navigate the tough conversations.

— YOU’LL LEARN —

1) How conflict resilience brings people together

2) The key to raising your conflict tolerance

3) How to face any conflict head-on in three easy steps

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— ABOUT BOB —

Robert Bordone is a Senior Fellow at Harvard Law School, founder and former director of the Harvard Negotiation and Mediation Clinical Program, former Thaddeus R. Beal Clinical Professor of Law at Harvard Law School, and founder of The Cambridge Negotiation Institute. He is co-author of Designing Systems and Processes for Managing Disputes, and co-editor of The Handbook of Dispute Resolution.

• Book: Conflict Resilience: Negotiating Disagreement Without Giving Up or Giving In

• Book site: ConflictResilienceBook.com

• Website: BobBordone.com

— RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW —

• Book: The Age of Innocence by Edith Wharton

• Book: The Count of Monte Cristo (Penguin Classics) by Alexandre Dumas

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0:00.0	If you have any kind of difficult conversation or conflict that keeps you up at night,
0:13.9	that's worth engaging and not avoiding. And if you do it well, no matter how it ultimately turns out,
0:20.5	I think you'll feel
0:21.1	better about yourself.
0:23.8	If I continue to see a shutdown around an issue, instead of bringing the issue back up, there's
0:29.7	an interesting conversation to say, can we talk about what is happening for each of us when
0:36.9	this issue pops up.
0:38.9	How do you experience a conversation?
0:41.3	How do I experience a conversation?
0:50.3	That's Bob Bordone.
0:52.0	He's an internationally recognized negotiator and conflict management expert from Harvard Law,
0:56.5	who's had his fair share of navigating high-stakes negotiations.
0:59.9	He's also the founder of the Cambridge Negotiation Institute
1:02.3	and the former director of the Harvard Negotiation and Mediation Clinical Program.
1:06.7	Bob shares his expertise in navigating difficult conversations and negotiating disagreements in his new book,
1:12.7	Conflict Resilience, negotiating disagreement without giving up or giving in.
1:17.5	So you'll learn, one, how conflict resilience brings people together, two, the key to raising your conflict tolerance.
1:23.4	And three, how to face any conflict head on in three easy steps.
1:27.5	And if you want to get a quick summary write-up of these takeaways,
1:29.7	I recommend you sign up for the free Gold Nugget email newsletter at awesomeatyourjob.com.
1:34.6	I'm Pete McItis.
1:35.7	This is How to Be Awesome at Your Job.
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