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Love Life with Matthew Hussey

101: If He's Not Chasing, Why Are You Investing?

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.82.9K Ratings

🗓️ 3 April 2021

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Summary

"Get serious about people who treat you as serious.
Some people advise taking a chance on the unknown. Others think that’s crazy. I don’t think it is.
What is undeniably crazy though is taking a chance with your heart on someone you already know isn’t bothered about giving you theirs."
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I'm not being pessimistic. I am just, I'm not prepared to like,

0:05.0

expend my excitement all the time in those ways.

0:09.0

It's life is enough for me.

0:12.0

Like, what's happening right now is enough for me.

0:15.0

I don't need for this thing that this person who just called

0:19.0

or sent an email, I don't need for that to be the thing

0:23.0

that's like giving me my reason to be today.

0:40.0

Hello everyone. Hello, Matthew Hussie.

0:44.0

Well, Matt, I'll cut to the chase as it were because

0:51.0

the other day I was doing a Facebook live based on a blog I did called

0:56.0

if he's not chasing why are you investing?

1:01.0

This is a very common phenomenon where you get some,

1:05.0

you have a great day, you have an intimate moment,

1:10.0

you have something with a person, a guy, it feels great,

1:15.0

you've had a bit of texting and now you've got,

1:18.0

you've reached a little bit of that hook point.

1:21.0

And so what happens at this point is the brain goes into a kind of

1:25.0

overdrive where every single action that person takes now

1:30.0

is extensively analyzed, broken down, and every single action they take,

1:37.0

but even the most minor positive action is assumed to be an important signal.

1:44.0

And even if there's that distinction in economics about signal versus noise,

1:49.0

noise is just messy data that doesn't mean anything,

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