101. Get Off the Achievement Bandwagon and Become Who You Were Meant to Be: Nancy Paradis

The Suzanne Venker Show

Suzanne Venker

Society & Culture

4.9 • 650 Ratings

🗓️ 13 June 2021

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

Suzanne talks with Nancy Paradis, wife of Andre Paradis (a relationship coach who's been on this program multiple times) to discuss how the messages sent to young women today are untenable, unrealistic, and at odds with what most women want.

IN THIS EPISODE:

4:15 Nancy describes her history, her career in ballet and her move to LA

8:00 Nancy tells the story of how she and Andre met at a dance class

12:00 Nancy and Suzanne discuss the change that occurs when you have a family

14:20 Are you a “woman with a career” or a “career woman”?

19:00 Nancy talks about her job as a teacher/professor

23:00 The priority shift that occurs in women between the ages of 20 and 30

25:00 Nancy talks about being ridiculed in LA for being supportive of her husband, taking a step back in her career by other women

31:00 What's happening with Gen Z when it comes to understanding sex differences, what they’re being taught by the culture and in school

35:40 How knowing the information is not enough; you need to practice and have the tools

Transcript

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0:00.0	This will surprise no one who listens to this show, but America is single.
0:06.3	It's divorced, undercommitted, and hopelessly out of touch with how to build a relationship that lasts.
0:12.5	Women in particular are groomed for a life centered on career and on being fiercely independent,
0:18.0	as though marriage and family were a nice idea or a possible accompaniment to an
0:22.4	otherwise satisfying life.
0:25.4	But if Flying Solo is so great, why are online dating sites a billion-dollar industry,
0:32.4	replete with clients looking to get hitched?
0:36.2	In my new book, How to Get Hitched and Stay Hitched, which is available now for pre-order,
0:41.3	women get a much-needed detox from the cultural narratives they've absorbed about men, sex, love, marriage,
0:47.7	work, and family.
0:50.2	Modern women don't need any more help in the professional sphere.
0:53.6	They have that in spades.
0:55.8	What they don't have is guidance in love and life.
1:00.3	How to get hitched is not about finding a husband per se, but about how to map out a life that
1:04.8	works in every sphere, including marriage and children.
1:08.5	It offers women a new roadmap with specific countercultural
1:12.3	guidelines that will help them be successful in this domain. How to get hitched is the antidote women
1:17.7	need to reject the lies they've been fed by our culture. It's about what you really want
1:22.1	versus what you've been told you should want and about what is true of men in marriage versus
1:26.2	what you've been told is true.
1:33.8	Get ready. This book will rock your world. Just go to how to get hitched.net and you'll find all the information you need there. Again, that's how to get hitched.net. And now on with the show.
1:55.7	Thank you. on with the show. From the magnificent Midwest, it's the Suzanne Venker Show, where men and women are equal
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