Paul, last week on episode 90, you answered some questions from women, a wife, and an adult

daughter, about discovering hidden sexual sin in the lives of their husband and their adult father.

Today we have a heartbreaking situation from a husband who keeps discovering that his wife is having affairs. He starts by saying,

I found a video of yours on YouTube where you mentioned that giving grace does not mean being abused

or something like that. So here is my story. I've been married for 25 years and my wife has been

unfaithful more than once or twice. As a matter of fact,

she has been unfaithful more times than many would even have stayed married this long.

The last time was a couple years ago. This time around, she admits that she needs help,

but what matters most would be seeing a desire to have a deeper relationship with the Lord

and a greater understanding

for his word in her life. And this is just something that she does not do. In the end, I just feel

it will happen again because she must be the one seeking change. My question is, when is enough?

Enough. Do I just continue being married because the Lord hates divorce?

We don't argue every day and I've matured as a Christian over the years and I know that the Lord

has a purpose in this, yet deep down I am just so tired. Please share any insight that you may have

that would help me. It would be great. Thank you. so paul how would you counsel this man or any

spouse who finds themselves in this situation of a devastating betrayal of trust this again this

question um is sad to have to answer.

And my quick answer is how many affairs are too many, the answer is one.

But here's what's important to understand about marriage.

And this is going to get us to some direction.

Marriage is the only human relationship that, like, our relationship with God, is called

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