100: The Magic of Telling Your Marriage Story
The Empowered Wife Podcast: Marriage Help with Laura Doyle
Laura Doyle
4.7 • 1.1K Ratings
🗓️ 19 October 2021
⏱️ 41 minutes
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Summary
When you have unpleasant things happening at your house, things that seem embarrassing or shameful, you tend to keep them a secret. At least that was my strategy early on and that of many of my students. We didn't want anyone to know that our marriages were dysfunctional, distant, and falling apart. There aren't many places you can go to share about the painful, scary parts of your marriage without either losing status or feeling judged, both of which feel terrible. Especially if everybody else appears to have a happy family pictured right there on social media--everybody but you. Keeping your marriage shame a secret seems like a smart strategy, but it's also a heavy burden. On today's episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast we're talking about the magic of telling your marriage story.
During our free Adored Wife Challenge twice a year, where we all experiment with the 6 Intimacy Skills™ together for five days, I interviewed Master Coach Kathy Murray, who has been practicing the Intimacy Skills and Connection Framework for nearly 20 years. She shares so much wisdom in such an engaging way that I knew I wanted you to hear this interview. Her story was a powerful catalyst for transformation during that Challenge, with so many women hearing themselves as she revealed her own experience. See if you too hear yourself in Master Coach Kathy's story.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Empowered Wife podcast where it's all about fixing your relationship without your man's conscious efforts so that you feel desire, taken care of, and special, even if your relationship feels completely hopeless. |
| 0:22.0 | I'm Laura Doyle, and today I'm revealing |
| 0:24.9 | the magic of telling your marriage story. Twice a year we host a free adored wife |
| 0:31.0 | challenge where we all experiment with applying the six intimacy |
| 0:35.2 | skills together every day for five days. |
| 0:38.6 | As part of our challenge, I interviewed Master Coach Kathy Murray, who has been practicing the six |
| 0:44.2 | intimacy skills along with the Connection framework for nearly 20 years. |
| 0:48.8 | She has so much wisdom to share and she shares it in such an engaging way that I knew I wanted you to |
| 0:55.3 | hear this interview. Her story was a powerful catalyst for transformation during |
| 1:00.8 | that challenge with so many women hearing themselves as she |
| 1:05.6 | revealed her own experience. See if you also hear yourself in Master Coach |
| 1:10.8 | Kathy's Story. |
| 1:12.8 | And then I'll be giving out the worst relationship advice |
| 1:15.7 | of the Week Award, which I was hoping was maybe satire, |
| 1:19.8 | but no, they meant it. |
| 1:22.0 | All that is coming up, but first, let's talk about the magic of telling |
| 1:26.2 | your marriage story. When you have unpleasant things happening at your house, things |
| 1:32.2 | you wouldn't want anyone else to know about because you would be |
| 1:34.8 | embarrassed or ashamed, you tend to keep them a secret. At least that was my strategy early on and I hear from lots of students that that was their strategy too. |
| 1:45.2 | We didn't want anyone to know that our marriages were dysfunctional, |
| 1:49.6 | distant and falling apart and it's not like there are so many places you can go to share about the painful |
| 1:56.8 | scary parts of your marriage without either losing status or feeling judged. |
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