10 Years. No Social Media. Millions Reached. The DYM Story.

Delight Your Marriage

Belah Rose

Sexuality, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.7 • 589 Ratings

🗓️ 27 March 2025

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

Hi friend,

This one's pretty personal.

After 10 years of podcasting, coaching, and quietly building Delight Your Marriage—without social media—we're finally stepping into a new chapter. (I'm still kind of holding my breath saying that.)

In today's episode, I share the real behind-the-scenes story of:

Why I stayed off social all these years (and it's deeper than just "not liking it")
The Gideon moment that confirmed my calling to do this in secret
Publishing my book under a pseudonym—and the fears behind that decision
How God still grew DYM to a team of 10, hundreds of clients, and millions of downloads

And most importantly—why we're trying social media now.

But! Before you go hunting down our Instagram, Facebook, or YouTube… wait just one more day.

Tomorrow (Friday), we'll be sending you all the links (if you're on our email list -- if not go to delightyourmarriage.com) so you can follow, share, and help us get this message out to the world.

For now—would you take a moment to listen to this episode? I poured my heart into it.

With love and (slightly trembling?) excitement,
Belah

P.S. I won't be reading the comments (my team will!)—but if something resonates, share it with a friend. That's how this whole thing started in the first place. :)

Transcript

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast. You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy.
0:10.8	Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind what making love is all about. Delight your marriage.
0:19.8	Hey there, it's Bella Rose.
0:21.8	I wanted to share a little bit about something that's pretty cool coming down the pipe.
0:28.2	So if you have been following Delight Your Marriage for a while, we started in 2015 this podcast.
0:35.5	So it's been 10 years.
0:41.3	But before that, I wrote the book the year prior.
0:52.0	And something that's pretty different about Delight Your Marriage is that we did not do social media for pretty much the whole time. So I want to tell you the story and then I want to tell
0:58.9	you some updates. I still remember 11 years ago writing the book. Now by that time I had written about
1:09.7	or I had built about five different
1:12.6	businesses, I think, I think, I think, Delight Your Marriage was my fifth one. And each one had social
1:18.3	media. And I didn't love social media back then with any of those, but I knew that was best
1:27.2	practice is to start doing social. So I did and I posted
1:31.1	and I was all over that stuff. But what I heard, because I was such a nut for business and entrepreneurship
1:42.9	and I was always listening to different podcasts and books
1:46.1	and all that. But I remember hearing this phrase or the sentiment. I don't remember where I heard
1:52.6	it, but essentially it talks about don't pursue work that is meant to please the crowds or even to make money.
2:06.4	But do the work that needs to be done.
2:10.6	Do the work that needs to be done.
2:14.0	And if you've heard my story, what I basically learned through a very difficult journey of getting married when I was young, doing it God's way, saving myself for marriage, and really not knowing how to do this thing called marriage. I just didn't have good role models. They certainly tried their best and with really good intentions and hearts, but they
2:35.1	didn't know.
2:36.7	They weren't taught.
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