I think sometimes when we hear the word manipulation, we hear about manipulation happening, we can often think

It's kind of an idea that it's out there. I don't do it, right?

It's something that other people do to us or that we witness, but we don't do it ourselves. Or we say he is so manipulated.

My self is so manipulated, right? It's never us owning it for ourselves. Yeah, and as we've studied manipulation for this episode

But also for past kind of things that we've done. I'm always amazed at how we can subtly

Manipulate each other in our own merits and we don't even a lot of times know we're doing it

I'd say I would argue that we don't I don't know

I never really know what we're doing

I'm using a manipulation tactic and I'm like you know what?

We're getting point in the mouth

Let's just stop

So there's actually so today we're talking about 10 common manipulation tactics that

Merid couples used people in relationships that use these on one another and they oftentimes don't even realize it

So we're hoping that this will be a lucidating episode for you and it could help make your marriage even more healthy

So we'll see you on the other side

So I never told you about this and this you'd love when I start a sentence with that

Always my favorite

I had a dream the night that's about my dream

I don't know

Probably not because if you're this funny about it

I had a dream that you and I were at some sort of like camp experience

And it was some sort of relationship building thing and every there are couples and every couple had to get up and sing some song from Lama's

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