It's getting to be that time of the year.

Time to have the old talk with your kids as they get older because your kids, while

they're learning about stuff, they're also figuring out some stuff is on the internet. And sometimes that conversation can be a little bit awkward to broach. But don't worry, we're here to help. Oh, good. The men's room top 10. The men's from Top 10. So this comes to us from The Guardian from Jess Melendez

And it says parents don't panic over porn

Here's how to have an age appropriate and shame-free talk with your kids

You like boobies too, brother?

Pretty much

So there's just a handful of things that they go through

Because if you want to broach that subject with your children

There's a handful of things

to consider they say first to set the stage set the stage for yourself if you start from fear

oh no my child might see this terrible thing the conversation will probably be shut down quickly

but if you ground yourself it changes everything think about the bigger picture pornography is

not going away equipping your child to understand what they see to ask questions is far more effective than pretending it doesn't even exist. I'm talking to my daughter about this tonight. All right. Yeah, just sit her down. Yeah, I am. One day you're going to find pornography. Dad, I'm 26. What kinds of questions do they think your kid wants to ask you about porn? Yeah.

It's like, brother, that tingle you get, trust me, it's a very personal thing.

Let me show you what your mom likes.

Start with your values, exactly, Miles.

Before talking about porn, take a moment to reflect on what you do want your child to know about sex and relationships.

Do you want them to value consent, to understand that intimacy is about connection, not just performance? To know that their bodies deserve care and dignity. That's part of the problem with porn is that it's... Sex is a great connection between two people. It's like, but we've lost it in this like performative thing. all right let now that I know what sex is let's

get after like it's nothing like this consent is everything after that whatever you guys consent

to is your own business yes and I don't want to know and I can imagine in the younger generation

because they have so much access to it like it was tougher for us but like I mean I still

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