Hey everyone it's your girl Breini Lee and welcome to the Pep Talk

podcast where we have real raw relatable conversations with the pep talk you need.

You have the power to create your future, the choices that you made today.

What do you bring to the table, baby I am the table?

Love yourself a little bit more than that ladies come on

dust settles Queens don't and don't forget know your worth and then attacks

period so ten red flags in dating. So the first five are going to be red flags during the first

date and the other five are going to be red flags during the dating process, okay? So red flag

numano uno red flag number one. He talks constantly and negatively about his ex or his baby mother who is technically still his ex.

The danger in that is twofold.

Number one, he may not be over his ex,

which is why he keeps talking about it

and he feels like talking about that person negatively

will make him feel better.

It doesn't make him feel better. It doesn't make him feel better, it makes him

sound bitter. The second reason why this may be a red flag is because the way

people talk about people that used to be in their life, that used to be in their life that used to be associated with them

that at one point in time you actually genuinely loved or liked at the very

minimum it shows how they treat people who can no longer do anything for them.

How they treat people that are no longer in their lives.

And that can be a sure red flag on how they could possibly potentially treat you if you happen to break up.

It just isn't a nice thing for someone to come on a first day and constantly talk about their ex. And even if they're not talking about their ex

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