10 Guys You Shouldn’t Date: How Can I Avoid Dating The Bad Boys?

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

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Talk Radio, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Default

4.8 • 808 Ratings

🗓️ 8 August 2023

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Q: Hey Debra! I have a pattern of dating the bad boys. How do I recognize the type of guy I should date, from the type of guy I shouldn’t date? When it comes to dating relationships, there is definitely such a thing as red flags in a relationship. The problem is, depending on our level of health and awareness – we can often either ignore the red flags or make excuses for them all together. The reasons so many people find themselves drawn to toxic relationships is complex, and one that I would encourage you to read about more in this article called “Why You Always Date Jerks“. But make no mistake about it – these bad boys can be recognized from a distance – and the healthier you are, the more quickly and easily you’ll be able to recognize a bad boy when he comes along. Dating The Bad Boys: What To Look For But in this episode – we’re not talking about the WHY….we’re talking about the WHAT. What are the traits that help us recognize when a guy is not good for us? In this episode of the LOVE + RELATIONSHIPS PODCAST, I’m talking you through a list of 10 guys that you need to avoid like the plague if you start noticing these qualities in your relationship. Because what you see in dating, you’ll see multiplied times 100 in marriage….the good, the bad, and the ugly. Tune in and subscribe by clicking below! And be sure to tune in next week when we talk about the 10 Girls You Shouldn’t Date! Want to be on the Love + Relationships Podcast? Go to truelovedates.com/loveandrelationships/ to submit your question and learn more. SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON iTUNES BY CLICKING HERE Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER or SPOTIFY Resources Mentioned on the Love + Relationships Podcast and Additional Show Notes: For another fun episode of the Love + Relationships Podcast check out the entire episode listing: LOVE + RELATIONSHIPS PODCAST Upcoming Events: 30’s Singles Mixers: TrueLoveDates.com is thrilled to announce that we’re offering another Single’s Mixer! On August 13, 2023 from 8pm-10pm EST for ages 30-40. This event will have the feel of “speed dating” but in a group setting and in the comfort of your own home thanks to online technology and Zoom!! During the night, you’ll get to hear from and interact with each person in the group using audio and video technology. Spot’s are limited to 20 singles (10 men / 10 women) so submit your application today! You can learn more about applying to this mixer HERE. 40’s Singles Night Out: You do not have to journey through singleness alone! On Friday, August 25th, 2023 at 8:00 pm EST, I will be hosting a 40’s Singles Night Out. Both of these events will be hosted on Zoom! These nights are going to be filled with fun, fellowship, giveaways, and encouragement. Click HERE to learn more! Books: Get busy learning what you need to know about healthy singleness, dating, and marriage. Check out Love In Every Season: The Four Stages of Every Healthy Relationship, Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me or True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life. DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She’s written six books including Choosing Marriage,True Love Dates, Love In Every Season,Are You Really OK?, Married Sex, and RESET. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast answering listener questions about love, relationships, and mental and emotional health. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hey everyone. Welcome to the Love and Relationships podcast, a hotline style show where people
0:23.6	call in with questions about love, sex, dating, singleness, and marriage, and mental and emotional
0:29.3	health. I'm Deborah Faleta, and I'm so glad you're tuning into these candid, unscripted
0:34.5	conversations where I answer your questions in short, bite-sized, practical answers.
0:41.1	For those of you who don't know me, I'm a licensed professional counselor, relationship expert,
0:46.4	an author of six books. I also run the popular relationship advice blog, True Love Dates.com,
0:52.2	reaching millions of people with the message that healthy people
0:55.9	make healthy relationships. If you have a question that you want me to answer on the show,
1:01.6	send it by voice memo to Deborah at truelovedates.com or submit it on my podcast page,
1:08.4	truelovedates.com slash love and relationships. And I'll do my best to get
1:13.1	it answered on one of the episodes. So let's get started. I don't know if you've heard,
1:20.3	but it is singles summer. Over the past few weeks, we have been celebrating and encouraging
1:26.1	Christian singles with all kinds of singles events,
1:29.9	mixers, devotionals, groups, and so much more. I truly believe that if we want to make a dent
1:37.0	in the divorce rate, we have to start by getting our singles healthy and in healthy relationships. In honor of single summer, we're going to be
1:47.9	diving into the singles summer podcast series where I'll be sharing some of our favorite episodes
1:54.3	about singleness, dating, and relationships. Be sure to share these episodes with all the
2:00.2	Christian singles you know.
2:02.5	If you're single and you want to get connected with what we're doing for singles,
2:06.8	check out true lovedates.com slash singles summer.
2:11.5	Now let's take some time to listen in to some of our favorite episodes for singles.
2:21.3	Thank you. listen in to some of our favorite episodes for singles. Today's question comes from Mary from Los Angeles, who says,
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