10 Guys You Shouldn’t Date: How Can I Avoid Dating The Bad Boys?

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

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Christianity, Talk Radio, Default, Religion & Spirituality

4.8 • 808 Ratings

🗓️ 28 January 2019

⏱️ 15 minutes

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Q: Hey Debra! I have a pattern of dating the bad boys. How do I recognize the type of guy I should date, from the type of guy I shouldn't date? When it comes to dating relationships, there is definitely such a thing as red flags in a relationship. The problem is, depending on our level of health and awareness - we can often either ignore the red flags or make excuses for them all together. The reasons so many people find themselves drawn to toxic relationships is complex, and one that I would encourage you to read about more in this article called "Why You Always Date Jerks". But make no mistake about it - these bad boys can be recognized from a distance - and the healthier you are, the more quickly and easily you'll be able to recognize a bad boy when he comes along. Dating The Bad Boys: What To Look For But in this episode - we're not talking about the WHY....we're talking about the WHAT. What are the traits that help us recognize when a guy is not good for us? In this 25th of the LOVE + RELATIONSHIPS PODCAST, I'm talking you through a list of 10 guys that you need to avoid like the plague if you start noticing these qualities in your relationship. Because what you see in dating, you'll see multiplied times 100 in marriage....the good, the bad, and the ugly. Tune in and subscribe by clicking below! And be sure to tune in next week when we talk about the 10 Girls You Shouldn't Date! Want to be on the Love + Relationships Podcast? Go to truelovedates.com/loveandrelationships/ to submit your question and learn more. SUBSCRIBE AND LISTEN ON iTUNES BY CLICKING HERE Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER or SPOTIFY Resources Mentioned on the Love + Relationships Podcast and Additional Show Notes: For another fun episode of the Love + Relationships Podcast check out the entire episode listing: LOVE + RELATIONSHIPS PODCAST BOOKS BY DEBRA Get busy learning what you need to know about healthy singleness, dating, and marriage. Check out Choosing Marriage: Why It Has To Start With We > Me or True Love Dates: Your Indispensable Guide to Finding the Love of Your Life. DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates. She's also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Hey, friends, welcome back to the love and relationships podcast. I'm your host, Deborah Felita,
0:23.5	and I'm so glad you're tuning in to these candid conversations about love, sex, dating,
0:28.7	singleness, and marriage. For those of you who don't know me or are tuning in for the first time,
0:33.6	I'm a licensed professional counselor and author specializing in relationship issues.
0:38.6	I also run the Relationship Advice blog True Love Dates.com, reaching millions of people with the message that healthy people make healthy relationships.
0:48.3	If you've tuned into the podcast before, you know it's a hotline style show, meaning people call in or write in with their
0:54.9	relationship questions and I answer them on this show in short, practical, bite-sized
0:59.8	answers. If you have a question that you want me to answer on the show, send it via email or
1:05.3	voice memo to Deborah at true lovedates.com or check out my podcast page truelovedates.com slash love and relationships
1:13.3	and I'll do my best to get it answered on one of the episodes. So let's get started.
1:22.9	Today's question comes from Mary from Los Angeles who says, I have a pattern of dating unhealthy
1:29.2	guys.
1:30.0	How do I recognize the type of guy I should date from the type of guy I shouldn't date?
1:35.8	Mary, Mary, Mary, just say no to bad dates, Mary.
1:39.8	And anyone else listening to this episode who feels like they can relate to this as well.
1:46.0	Here's the thing.
1:48.0	Bad relationships are everywhere, you know?
1:51.3	Imagine how simple it would be if we could just see bad relationships before we even got to know somebody and could avoid them all together.
2:00.6	But sometimes that's easier
2:02.0	said than done. And sometimes we miss the warning signs or worse yet, we ignore the warning signs.
2:08.2	Like maybe we see them, but we don't take them too seriously. So no matter who you are or how
2:14.8	desperate you're feeling or how long you've been single or how badly you've
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