10 Genius Things to Say & Do Right After You Get a Girl's Phone Number (These Make Your 1st Text "Stick")
The Unapologetic Man Podcast: How to Meet, Attract, and Date More Women
Mark Sing -- Seduction & Attraction Coach for Men
4.7 • 1.4K Ratings
🗓️ 28 April 2026
⏱️ 21 minutes
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Summary
In this high-impact episode of The Unapologetic Man Podcast, host Mark Sing breaks down 10 genius things to say and do right after you get a girl's phone number to make sure it actually sticks. Because the truth is, getting numbers is easy. Getting a response, building attraction over text, and turning that into a real date? That's where most guys completely fail.
Mark dives deep into the subtle moments right after the number close that make all the difference, how to spike attraction with humor, avoid coming off transactional, and create emotional momentum that will elevate you from someone she ghosts, to someone she wants to date.
Key Takeaways:
- Simple, funny lines that spike attraction immediately after the number close
- Why getting a phone number means nothing unless it "sticks"
- Why outcome independence (making every approach meaningless) changes everything
- The exact timing and structure of a high-converting first text
Key Timestamps:
[00:00:00] – Episode intro
[00:00:52] – Why getting a phone number is only half the battle
[00:01:33] – What actually makes a number "stick"
[00:03:25] – Easy way to get her number + funny lines to spike attraction instantly
[00:04:47] – Calling her on the spot (powerful technique)
[00:06:07] – Why you should stick around after the number close
[00:07:36] – Sponsorship segment + coaching offer
[00:10:33] – Don't let her see you flirting with other girls
[00:11:21] – How to stay low-key and avoid blowing yourself out
[00:14:58] – When to send the first text (timing strategy)
[00:16:52] – Never double text (and what to do instead)
[00:17:41] – The "black hole" follow-up technique
[00:18:16] – Recap of all key strategies
[00:20:08] – Episode Outro
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About The Unapologetic Man Podcast
The Unapologetic Man Podcast is your resource for mastering dating, attraction, and relationships from a confident, masculine perspective. Hosted by Mark Sing, this podcast gives men the tools and mindset shifts needed to succeed in their dating lives and build lasting, high-value relationships.
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| 0:00.0 | So getting a phone number really isn't that big of an accomplishment. |
| 0:04.0 | It's getting a phone number that sticks. |
| 0:06.0 | And when I say sticks, it means her texting you back and her actually going out with you. |
| 0:11.0 | A girl going on a day with a guy is not only risky because she's risking her safety, |
| 0:17.0 | but it's also a gigantic hassle. |
| 0:19.0 | She has to get her makeup on. she has to figure out what to wear. |
| 0:22.1 | Many times boys, when it comes to women, their hormones are all over the place. So a tub of |
| 0:26.9 | ice cream might sound better than going out with you. And that's why once again, we need to |
| 0:32.2 | make it stick. We need to make it feel like something she really wants to do. And here's |
| 0:37.1 | some techniques to get |
| 0:38.2 | you that little bit more attraction that will hopefully get her to actually text you back |
| 0:43.3 | and come out with you. The Unapologetic Man Podcast. What is up, your champions? Thank you for |
| 0:50.0 | tuning in to another episode of the UMP. I super appreciate you joining me. And I got a good one for you today, |
| 0:56.2 | boys. Ten things to say and do to make a phone number that actually sticks. If you've been listening |
| 1:02.1 | for a long time, you understand that getting a phone number is pretty damn easy. In fact, |
| 1:07.7 | we could get lots of phone numbers on any given night. It's really not that difficult, partly because girls will sometimes give us BS numbers |
| 1:15.7 | or give us her number without any intention of texting us back simply to get rid of us. |
| 1:21.9 | So getting a phone number really isn't that big of an accomplishment. |
| 1:25.4 | It's getting a phone number that sticks. |
| 1:28.2 | And when I say sticks, it means her texting you back and her actually going out with you. That is really important. |
| 1:34.8 | And the thing that dictates whether or not you get a phone number that sticks is the first conversation. |
| 1:40.2 | Were you attractive enough? Did you elicit enough emotions? Is she feeling comfortable enough around you and attracted enough to you to want to actually hang out with you outside this first conversation? |
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