#1 Relationship Expert Exposes the Main Reason Most Relationships Fail
The Tony Robbins Podcast
Tony Robbins
4.4 • 6.8K Ratings
🗓️ 18 December 2024
⏱️ 83 minutes
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Summary
What’s the secret sauce to building a love that lasts and keeps getting better?
Dr. Julia Colwell, renowned psychologist, relationship coach, and author, believes that while love, passion, and commitment are vital, the key to lasting connection lies in mastering foundational relationship skills.
In this special presentation, recorded live at Tony and Sage Robbins' 2017 Platinum Partners Relationship Event, Dr. Colwell shares her decades of experience helping individuals and couples transform emotional challenges into opportunities for deeper intimacy, trust, and growth. As the founder of the Boulder Center for Conscious Community and author of acclaimed works such as The Relationship Skills Workbook and The Relationship Ride, Dr. Colwell offers transformative tools and strategies for navigating the most common struggles couples face.
Dr. Colwell explains how to disarm conflicts and replace arguments with meaningful connection, escape power struggles by fostering mutual support, and let go of blame to create trust and lasting solutions. She reveals how couples can balance personal growth with a commitment to their partner's happiness and reignite the love and passion that keep relationships alive and thriving. With her guidance, even the most challenging moments can become opportunities to deepen intimacy and build a conscious, cooperative partnership.
Tony and Sage are thrilled to present this transformative session with Dr. Julia Colwell. Let her wisdom and expertise inspire you to create the extraordinary relationship you deserve. Please enjoy!
Tony Robbins is a #1 New York Times best-selling author, entrepreneur, philanthropist, and the nation's #1 Life and Business Strategist. For more than four and a half decades, more than 100 million people from 195 countries have enjoyed the warmth, humor, and transformational power of his business and personal development events.
Mr. Robbins is the author of seven internationally bestselling books, including three #1 New York Times bestsellers: Money: Master the Game, Unshakeable, and Life Force. He created the #1 personal and professional development program of all time, and more than 10 million people have attended his live seminars.
Anthony Robbins is the chairman of a holding company comprising more than 110 privately held businesses with combined sales exceeding $7 billion a year. He has been named in the top 50 of Worth Magazine’s 100 most powerful people in global finance for three consecutive years, honored by Accenture as one of the "Top 50 Business Intellectuals in the World''; by Harvard Business Press as one of the "Top 200 Business Gurus"; and by American Express as one of the "Top Six Business Leaders in the World" to coach its entrepreneurial clients. Fortune’s recent cover article named him the “CEO Whisperer."
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, thanks for listening to the Tony Robbins podcast. This is just a quick note about this episode |
| 0:07.2 | in case you'd rather watch and see the video of this conversation, and that's found at |
| 0:12.9 | YouTube.com backslash Tony Robbins Live. You'd like to listen. You're in the right place. Okay, |
| 0:19.8 | here's Tony. |
| 0:41.8 | Anger and sadness and fear, anything in reactive brain, is resisting reality. Anytime you get angry or you get sad or you get afraid, you resisting what is that doesn't mean it's a bad thing to be mad or sad or scared it just is a signal to you like oh i am not actually in alignment with what |
| 0:48.0 | is our next speaker i'm really excited about and really want you to bring your energy to her because |
| 0:53.4 | this is the |
| 0:54.4 | woman who I got that sew technique that I showed you the other day from. |
| 0:59.3 | Mary found this book and brought it to us and Bonnie Pearl and I said I both read this book |
| 1:03.8 | and just thought it was so crystal clear, just so aligned with everything we believe, everything |
| 1:09.1 | we teach, all the principles. But her name is |
| 1:11.9 | Julia Caldwell, and Julia created this book called The Relationship Skills Workbook, a do-it-yourself |
| 1:16.8 | guide to a thriving relationship. She's spent 25 years kind of kitchen testing all these techniques |
| 1:22.2 | in real life. She's got a PhD. She's a psychologist, three decades of exploring relationship |
| 1:27.4 | dynamics. |
| 1:28.3 | But I just found her to be just incredibly simple and clear. |
| 1:33.3 | You can always talk about how complexity is the enemy of execution. |
| 1:36.3 | You make things more complex, nobody does it. |
| 1:39.3 | She's made it so simple, so clear, the whole idea that everyone has a right to feel whatever |
| 1:45.0 | they feel, think, whatever they think, that everyone really, truly only has arguments because |
| 1:49.2 | you say things that are arguable. These are the principles and distinctions she brought. So I think |
| 1:53.3 | this is going to be an incredibly practical experience for you, one that have tools that you could |
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