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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

#1 Most Downloaded: How Identity Impacts Relationships w/ Christine Caine

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Debra Fileta, M.A., LPC and Creator of TrueLoveDates.com

Self-improvement, Relationships, Education, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Society & Culture

4.9 • 757 Ratings

🗓️ 17 August 2021

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

What if I told you that your identity is one of the number one things that impacts the quality of your relationships? We’re highlighting the top 5 most downloaded podcasts of the past 12 months, and this episode came in at #1! Because what you believe about yourself determines the kind of relationship you believe you deserve. But so many things can get in the way of what we believe about ourselves. Christine Caine knows that first hand. In today’s episode, Christine and I talk about the importance of taking inventory of our identity, and what that looks like practically. Identity Matters In today’s episode we discuss: How trauma and past experiences can impact our identity. The labels we carry through life that impact our identity. Her personal story of adoption and abuse and how it impacted what she believed about herself. The psychology and theology behind identity and what shapes it. What it looks like to replace the lies about who we are with God’s truth. Understanding your identity in Christ. Verses that will shape your identity with truth (see below in the resources) And so much more!! If you’ve EVER struggled with identity issues, or maybe you’re struggling today — I can’t express to you how important this episode is. Tune in this episode of the Love & Relationships Podcast and follow the show by clicking on the button below! FOLLOW MY PODCAST AND LISTEN ON Apple PODCASTS BY CLICKING HERE Additional Ways To Listen: STITCHER – SPOTIFY – GOOGLE PLAY –  iHEART RADIO THANKS TO OUR SPONSORS: Modern Fertility Books by Debra: And Check out Debra’s Love + Relationships Podcast on iTunes or wherever you get your podcasts! DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, relationship expert, and author of Choosing Marriage and True Love Dates, and Love In Every Season, and Are You Really OK?. She’s also the host of the hotline style Love + Relationships Podcast. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey everyone. Welcome back to the Love and Relationships podcast. I'm your host, Deborah Felida,

0:24.1

and I'm so glad you're tuning into these candid conversations about love, sex, dating, singleness, and marriage,

0:31.4

and mental and emotional health. For those of you who don't know me, I'm a licensed professional

0:36.2

counselor and author of four books.

0:38.6

I also run the popular relationship advice blog, True Love Dates.com, reaching millions of people

0:44.7

with the message that healthy people make healthy relationships.

0:49.0

If you've tuned in to the podcast before, you know it's a hotline style show, meaning people call in or write in with their

0:55.9

questions and I answer them on the show in short, practical, bite-sized answers. But every summer,

1:02.1

we take some time to focus in on some of the most downloaded episodes from the year.

1:06.7

And so for the next few weeks, we're resharing some of these episodes that you just can't miss.

1:13.6

In the meantime, if you have a question that you want me to answer in our upcoming season,

1:18.2

send it via voice memo to Deborah at tru-lovedates.com or check out my podcast page,

1:25.0

tru-lovedates.com slash love and relationships.

1:29.0

And I'll do my best to get it answered on one of the episodes.

1:32.4

Before we jump into today's episode, I want to thank you for your support of my latest book.

1:38.2

Are You Really Okay?

1:40.0

It's a book on dealing with our mental and emotional health.

1:43.9

You guys have made this book a best-selling book on Amazon.

1:48.5

And the fact that you've been brave enough to pick it up and do the work

1:52.4

means more to me than I can even say.

1:54.7

So thank you.

1:55.9

And if you haven't started reading it yet, why not?

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